Normal for me to want a skinny gf?

OBVIOUSLY appearance is not everything, but it’s okay to have preference no?

I’m a rather skinny dude (6’ 1” and like 145lbs.) and all my GF’s over the years have been bigger than me in terms of BMI not always by a ton but still bigger. and tbh in these mid years of my twenties..I think I’m starting to realize that I’d really love to just have a skinny GF, one who is a similar or smaller build to me. Idk.. maybe it’s my evolutionary instinct to want to be the “protector” or maybe it’s just wanting something similar to what I’m like, or both.

Take for example my last GF she wasn’t all that much bigger than me but she would spoon me, ya know.. and like that’s great.. and it turned out that was just more comfortable given how our bodies fit together but like ... ya know.. I want to be the spoon-ER too lol.. like.. it’d just be nice to have a skinny gf. I don’t want to be shallow, but I just feel like given how skinny I am I’d feel more comfortable, is it normal to feel this way? I mean I imagine that someone on the he opposite side of the spectrum could feel this way, they may want another big cuddle bear rather than a stick they feel like they may break. Right?

Is It Normal?
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  • Do also prefer acne?

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  • Some people will tell you this is shallow or makes you an asshole, but I think this is totally normal and a lot of straight men prefer women who are smaller than them, whether that's their height or their build.

    I'm quite tall for a woman and I have never felt quite as comfortable with a man who is shorter than me. I have no prejudice about it and have been out with them at times. But my husband is bigger than me and it feels good. It adds to his attractiveness, from my perspective.

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  • Normal to want to be larger than your girlfriend so I see no issue

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  • Seems normal. Nothing wrong with a preference.

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  • Everyone has preferences. That is normal as long as it's nothing unhealthy like being attracted to anorexic people for example or severely overweight ones.

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  • Obviously normal. It's what most guys want whether they're skinny or not. They're usually more fun to manhandle too even if you're easily capable of doing the same to bigger girls.

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  • Normal

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  • Normal but don't get a way too skinny one. ( and by way too skinny I mean an underweight one. )

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