Normal for me to be with a guy whose family are trashy...

RandomJelly is absolutely right, you are not dating his family, you are dating him. Now if he is just like them, and you are merely overlooking it right now because you are still caught up in the novelty, then it will end anyway. You shouldnt think less of others because they have not lived a privaleged life like yourself, and try not to hate them because they are jeolous of you and your circumstances. Dont make the mistake of thinking that you are going to change people either, if he is on his best behavior right now, once he relaxes you will see the future of your relationship. The same goes for his family, it takes a decade to instill trashy into a person, and it takes longer to remedy it. With regard to the family, only put into it what you hope to get out of it, or you will be let down. But keep in mind, he is not his family. I know from personal experience, my parents were the worst kind of parents, abusive, trashy, drugs, etc, divorced after a couple years because of mutual infidelity, and I am nothing like either of them. I graduated college, bought a new home, nice cars, excellent credit, clean, thoughtful, empathetic, etc,...the point being I am nothing like them.