Normal for friend to yell at me for no reason a day after her wedding?

She went off on me because I wrote on facebook, "I'm going out. Be back tomorrow morning!"

so she deleted me and wrote in my messages before she deleted me, "I'm sorry, but what you wrote really offended me horribly. I said I was going to need you to come over and help me unpack this week. You can't do this to me, it's cruel."

Then I called her and she says, "I don't need any of this crap. I don't need to be upset on my honeymoon."

What the heck is this? It hurts me because I didn't do anything wrong and I thought brides are only bridezillas before/during the wedding and not after..what's with this??

Is it because her honeymoon was 20 mins away and not Italy like she had always wanted since she was 12? She's 19 btw.

Ugh, super annoyed! =[

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  • Tell her you will help her at her next wedding.

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  • apparently she thought you were going to help her unpack.

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  • Newly-wed women are known to be super-stressed, handle with extreme care.

    If you still want to be friends with her, call her back in few weeks and apologize (even if you didn't do anything wrong.) Otherwise, don't do anything.

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  • She sounds like she is venting from all the built up stress of the wedding and it was convenient to take it out in you. Maybe she wished she could go out etc...
    I don't know, she sounds a little wired up tho! Just leave it, she will realise how ridiculous it all is when she calms down.

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  • Tell her to go and fuck herself

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  • Omg! Totall bridezilla tell her to stop being so spoiled and bratty like if she's gonna act like a 4 year old she was obviously too young to get married.

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  • i feel bad for you she sounds like shes being way too over emotional, Weddings can be a lot of stress on a person and clearly some women get kinda bitch with the combination of being overtired and the expectations of being the center of attenshion so when the wedding is over lots of bridezillas sometimes get all cranky cause the big day is over and everyone has moved on, maybe when she has some time to calm down she will realize what an idiot she is being and hopefully come to you to apoligize if she doesnt its her loss not yours, I know your hurt but maybe this is a lucky break i mean talk about selfish!(and she clearly doesnt have the best problem solving skills)

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  • Dude, get a new friend. Stress be damned, her actions were uncalled for and it's just indicative of more crappy behavior to come.

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  • As it's already been said, newly weds are generally highly stressed, and don't always use the most rational of thinking.

    During difficult times, people can behave significantly differently than normal, be that acting desperately, to just needlessly causing problems.

    Although I can't speak from experience, I know that I've said and done things that I later realized were unreasonable and thoughtless during hard times.

    Give her awhile to reconsider what happened, and if all else fails, try to talk about it if you'd like to mend things.

    If all else fails, you can always just apologize. Although not entirely sincere, it's better than letting a good friendship go to waste.

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  • Friends can be jerks.

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  • hoffy, I love what you wrote. That made my day!
    But really, you didn't even say anything TOWARDS her! That's not normal. Are you sure you didn't say anything else to her? (Maybe that's it). Otherwise, she's psycho, child.

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  • What country is she from? Lots of girls from the USA especially of the white ethnic group can be like this. I've noticed it in many girls.

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    • Yes, she's white from usa.

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  • Not justifying her behavior here, but is it possible you have a history of telling her you'll do something and then not following through?

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    • No, I'm very good with that sort of thing.

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