No sex with wife, and am i bi?

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I am 58 and my wife is 52. We've been married 5 years. Sex before marriage was okay, but got lesser over the years and now, after marriage is down to ZERO! I want it but she has no desire so I masturbate a lot and do it with other guys on webcam. This way I don't think I am cheating. I am also considering it in real life. Is this normal? I also have homosexual fantasies, as this also lets me think of it as not cheating. I had done some mutual masturbation in the past and a friend once did me orally. Is is normal for a guy who considers himself straight to think along these lines?

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  • TurtleGuy764
    12 years ago | pl

    well i consider myself gay and have fantasy about girls i do not think it is weird it just means your sorta bi

    also maybe you should talk to your wife about having more sex (in your case, sex at all).

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  • LF4sDLX
    12 years ago | pl

    Happens quite a lot from what I read & the way I feel. It's still cheating, just to a lesser degree I tell myself. Horny guys just having fun, the same way we did as teens! Try & spark it up with your wife more. If sex is a problem it takes up 80% of your relationship. If it's not a problem it's only 20% of what's bothers you. Have fun with the guys, bit don't forget about you wife

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  • Jim_Pfoss
    14 years ago | pl

    Sigh... Apparently, it is.

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    • GrandAm
      14 years ago | pl

      I take it from your response that you are in the same boat? I am seeing so much of this. How are you dealing with it?

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