She has lots of hope. Fighting a spouse that's divorcing you on the grounds of cruelty leaves you open for character defamation. These kinds of divorces can drag on for years until both parties have no more money to pay their lawyers. This is what she has in mind. Lawyers have advised me against doing that.
Well if I were you I'd file for an annulment based on Fraud or Incapacity of Spouse, or you can live with the sexless marriage if you are too scared of her.
The other option, if you are in the U.S, is no fault, but you'd have to split your assets. A small price to pay as far as I can see. Every state allows this in the U.S without spousal signature.
The final option is take a few years to drain all your assets and squirrel it away into cash. Then file for divorce and go bankrupt. This isn't legal but they'd have to prove it. 7 years of bankruptcy and living off cash or a lifetime of sexless misery.
Your first two options won't work. Annulment cannot be had after 20 year of marriage. The no fault option sounds good to me. But after we split assets, she will keep pestering me with petty lawsuits forcing me to incur legal fees.
I like that final option. It might work better if I left the country. But, I will work out the details.
Thank you for your advice. The way you have organized the options makes a lot of sense.
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Nope. She said she is done with sex in all forms.
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That's grounds for divorce or possibly annulment right there. Get it done with quickly.
She has to have grounds to fight the divorce and if you cheat she will. Otherwise what hope does she have.
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She has lots of hope. Fighting a spouse that's divorcing you on the grounds of cruelty leaves you open for character defamation. These kinds of divorces can drag on for years until both parties have no more money to pay their lawyers. This is what she has in mind. Lawyers have advised me against doing that.
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Well if I were you I'd file for an annulment based on Fraud or Incapacity of Spouse, or you can live with the sexless marriage if you are too scared of her.
The other option, if you are in the U.S, is no fault, but you'd have to split your assets. A small price to pay as far as I can see. Every state allows this in the U.S without spousal signature.
The final option is take a few years to drain all your assets and squirrel it away into cash. Then file for divorce and go bankrupt. This isn't legal but they'd have to prove it. 7 years of bankruptcy and living off cash or a lifetime of sexless misery.
Up to you, but grow a set and make a move.
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Your first two options won't work. Annulment cannot be had after 20 year of marriage. The no fault option sounds good to me. But after we split assets, she will keep pestering me with petty lawsuits forcing me to incur legal fees.
I like that final option. It might work better if I left the country. But, I will work out the details.
Thank you for your advice. The way you have organized the options makes a lot of sense.
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Just a heads up, from legal zoom (I know not the most prestigious but pretty reputable):
"The process and bases for annulment varies by state, but annulment generally is not based on the length of time the couple has been married."