No one listens!!! uggghhhhhh

I feel exactly the same.

I think i knoe how you feel. When someone is bothering me & i talk about it with someone else sometimes i feel like they arnt listening. See most people just want someone listen but i like people to respond. The only problem is the people i talk to dont always respond how i wanted them to nothing they ever say helps and some alwaysss change the subject. Sometimes it makes me just want to shut up & lay in my bed just feeling hurt alll day till someone comes in there to comfort me, but sometimes noone comes. I get what you mean im pretty sure, & its hard i cant help you out but i can tell you i understand and feel free to ask me for advice ill listen & respond :)

Feel exactly the same, AND Im going to carry on being like this. Its who I am. Im not a smiley girl. I have a horrible smile. I dont deserve to be happy.

It's normal that you feel bad about but you shouldnt let it affect you so much. Maybe you just need better friends who care about you and what you have to say and arent always bringing you down because of it. No one likes to be ignored but some people just don't want to listen. Find people that do.

Yeah. Blondes are stupid. Proof? There's one sat commenting on your thing whos so stupid she called herself stupid XD

And yes it is normal. And yes you are being parinoid. [Get what I mean about stupid? UGH!] It's hard to explain. It's normal because lots of people feel or have felt that way but you are probaly being paranoid. Unless the world is out to get you! :O

Don't worry about it, the worlds out to get the blonde idiot too.

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:OOO OHMYGODPANICANDHIDEUNDERTHETABLES!!!

Hey, try posting something interesting here, you will get all the attention you need. Like this, or some other thing from you life that you think you could share with IIN. We love listening to you.

Well I can understand that not being listened to might be depressing but at the same time your not the centre of the universe not meaning that in a nasty way but if there not listening to you it means your not bringing anything relevent to the conversation or there just being bitchs and dont respect you, so maybe wait till you have somthing good to say or get some new friends

It's perfectly normal to feel looked over or misunderstood. What you need to tell your friends is that you don't appreciate them calling you stupid and that sometimes you would like to insert your point of view without harsh verbal criticism. (You can word it however you like of course). Just let them know you feel overlooked and treated badly and if they're your real friends, they'll understand.

Listening, and conveying to the speaker that they are actually being heard, is a skill and conveys respect & value. People feel quite rejected and devalued when they are not heard, as you say. So try to be a listener & encourage that in others.

On the other hand, if you are difficult to follow, it doesn't make it easy to listen. For example, why would you jump from not being listened to, to getting your hair died, and then back? One might get the impression that you are blurting out whatever pops into your head. Stay on topic & respect your audience.

Its true not all blonds are dumb I have friend that is blond she is very intellgent. one the other issue maby every one doesn't take you're words seriously at some point they will see that they should of.

I'm willing to lister...
Though techincally I'm already listening.
No, I don't believe that everything you say is either stupid or irrelavent by the way.

....... Wait what I wasn't listening

If anything, that pisses me off.
I have a friend, who everythime I say something to him, he just gives me a thumbs up and a sarcastic smile.
I've actually stabbed him in the hand with a pencil for it before.

HAHA Ollieo that last paragraph nearly knocked me off my seat!!!

Ok...to the subject...Just slow down and breathe. You probably have many relavent things to say and I'm sure it's frustrating at times to talk with no attention granted. Having "friends" who either tease you relentlessly or undermmind your intelligence may not be the right way to be either. Prove that you are the intelligent person you claim to be. Calm down and slow before begining a subject, and you should be fine. Good Luck.

~Peace~