No one cares

Sometimes it feels like noone cares about me, I have technically no relationship with my mum and I find it difficult opening up to people so I hardly have strong friendships, but I am close to my little sister and I like being a big sister to her. I would say I do have a low self esteem and sometimes I get weeks when I feel low.

When I'm alone I think no one cares, and I get irrional thoughts and the cycle of sadness begins again. Is this norma?

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  • tellmewhy

    its normal to feel like this but i think you need to get some help. and make sure you remember that people can't care about you if you don't open up to them.

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    • Laubotje

      Some people just really find it hard to do so, it's not like they DONT want to open up.

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  • Thatguy777

    I feel this way, often, espicially right now. Everyday I go to school where it seems like everybody is always stuck up and crabby. Seems like no one gives a fuck about me there. At home my dad just gets on to me whenever I'm not doing shit 100%. Other than that I stay away from him. My mom seems to care, but we fight alot because she gets mad about stupid shit, then I get mad. This year is just crappy. Hopefully things will get better for everyone soon.

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  • At times I feel the same I dont have a good relationship with my mother too and i never will also dont open up much and I too often think no one cares dont worry you'll meet someone that'll be there to show how much they care I did and so will you give it time so absolutly normal and you know what the funny thing is I didnt open up one bit to that person but they kept on reaching out and I took the chance if you feel no one is like that then i think you should be the one to try and reach out.

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  • House

    make them listen to you!when i feel like that i make them listen!

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  • Talk to your family doctor, a teacher you trust who can listen, pastor, youth counsellor - someone. There's help for you, some people do actually care, but you have to reach out a bit. You are simply lonely, blue, despairing & need a bit of support to move on to something better for yourself ... good luck.

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