I think that its ok for your parents not to call you as maybe they want to give you freedom and may I ask you why you wait for them to call and dont call yourself? I had the same as I went to uni in another city and we did not talk often, but I went home for holidays cos I wanted to see them and they were always happy to see me. Also, it sounds like you think they might suspect about your orientation? If this is such a problem I would just disapere from their lives as this might be the best solution for all of you... It does not mean that they stopped loving you, but they are also not obliged to approve everything you do in life. I think in your case (if I were muslim and not attracted to the opposite sex) i would just stay away from sex all together and focus on something else in life ;)
i think you are wrong i have left them because i care for them and the second is im not in another city im in another country and so far from them that i cant visit them anymore cos im a refugee and here in turkey is war everywhere people make bombs and my life is not sex its about the sexuality situation that no one can control it cos its normal you know this the bullshit replay that i have every readed ...
ok. it is your choice not to like what I said. but why can't you call them yourself? also, I disagree with the view that we are controlled by our sexuality. This is bullshit. We are in charge of who we become including our sexuality. But, saying this I agree that we cannot choose who we fall in love with. This is a totally different matter. But we are in charge of our actions. The way we act in life is totally our choice.
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I think that its ok for your parents not to call you as maybe they want to give you freedom and may I ask you why you wait for them to call and dont call yourself? I had the same as I went to uni in another city and we did not talk often, but I went home for holidays cos I wanted to see them and they were always happy to see me. Also, it sounds like you think they might suspect about your orientation? If this is such a problem I would just disapere from their lives as this might be the best solution for all of you... It does not mean that they stopped loving you, but they are also not obliged to approve everything you do in life. I think in your case (if I were muslim and not attracted to the opposite sex) i would just stay away from sex all together and focus on something else in life ;)
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i think you are wrong i have left them because i care for them and the second is im not in another city im in another country and so far from them that i cant visit them anymore cos im a refugee and here in turkey is war everywhere people make bombs and my life is not sex its about the sexuality situation that no one can control it cos its normal you know this the bullshit replay that i have every readed ...
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ok. it is your choice not to like what I said. but why can't you call them yourself? also, I disagree with the view that we are controlled by our sexuality. This is bullshit. We are in charge of who we become including our sexuality. But, saying this I agree that we cannot choose who we fall in love with. This is a totally different matter. But we are in charge of our actions. The way we act in life is totally our choice.