No matter what i do i just can not get over him

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Hey everyone,I'm 38 and I have been with this man on and off for almost 2 years. He always told me he loves me but does everything to prove to me he don't . I know he don't and is dating someone else now. How can I get over him. Its been a year of us being apart more than together.I am so in love with him still. Can't get over it. I am hurting!! He is on my mind constantly. Every where I go something reminds me of him. He was so different from anyone I've ever bEen with! I feel so lost. I am with friends and go out..nothing helps. I don't won't to want him and have felt like that for a long time! But still do...what is wrong with me? What can I do? Please help

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  • jas07
    13 years ago

    Oh boy!!! Isn't this always normal if your really in live! I know it's hard to let go, trust it's hard. I was in a relationship for 4 years, had 2 kids and he had cheated on me constantly but I STILL couldn't find myself to move on. The best advice I can tell you, woman to woman is that we don't need a guy to define us or make us feel complete, it's all about how strong u r and if u really love him u will let go and if it's mention to be it will find it's way back to you. Maybe it's just not right, for right now. Who knows what the future brings but u have to believe that everything happens for a reason and If it doesn't kill us it only
    Makes us stronger. Were not gettin any younger so just live your life to the fullest!! It's about the strengh within.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I have the same problem and I feel ur pain, trust me. but not to be rude or anything, but I think mine is worst. my lover forever that is constantly on my mind: is my best friend. everything about him is perfect an I LOVE him. but he doesn't see it. anyway I think the best way is to go out more, try to forget him, and move on to someone who makes you feel special instead of awkward. try it, it may work! good luck!

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  • blondie28
    13 years ago

    Ugh I had the same problem and it's been over a year now since I been with him and yet It still hurts wen I think of him, I feel that as time goes on u don't get rid of the pain u just learn to deal with it,I mean really what other choice do u have, and I did find sum one new and of course it helps but I still shed a tear now and then .

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  • jsilver
    13 years ago

    If it was only a new break up then I would say it's normal and u just need to take ur time but since it's been a year u have to get out there more. Meetin a new guy is the best way to get over an old one

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