I guess if you spoke to him about it he would have been feeling under pressure. Really depends now if you are willing to persevere, I probably would for a while at least if I really liked him that is. Why not try telling him not to worry for now, plan an evening with just a good film and a bottle of wine or something, curl up on sofa with scented candles turn the lights down etc then when he's totally not expecting it start giving him oral, see what happens and where it leads.
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I guess if you spoke to him about it he would have been feeling under pressure. Really depends now if you are willing to persevere, I probably would for a while at least if I really liked him that is. Why not try telling him not to worry for now, plan an evening with just a good film and a bottle of wine or something, curl up on sofa with scented candles turn the lights down etc then when he's totally not expecting it start giving him oral, see what happens and where it leads.