Three most likely possibilities 1. he's a virgin and scared he won't know what to do 2. It's disfigured in some way 3. It's smaller than normal, or at least he thinks it is (everyone knows how men get Hung up on size). Solution: ask if he's a virgin or if there is any other reason he doesn't want to have sex with you. If he has a real reason be gentle, reassure him and enjoy. If he can't give you a good reason tell him he either man's up and starts satisfying you or he gets his marching orders.
I guess if you spoke to him about it he would have been feeling under pressure. Really depends now if you are willing to persevere, I probably would for a while at least if I really liked him that is. Why not try telling him not to worry for now, plan an evening with just a good film and a bottle of wine or something, curl up on sofa with scented candles turn the lights down etc then when he's totally not expecting it start giving him oral, see what happens and where it leads.
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Three most likely possibilities 1. he's a virgin and scared he won't know what to do 2. It's disfigured in some way 3. It's smaller than normal, or at least he thinks it is (everyone knows how men get Hung up on size). Solution: ask if he's a virgin or if there is any other reason he doesn't want to have sex with you. If he has a real reason be gentle, reassure him and enjoy. If he can't give you a good reason tell him he either man's up and starts satisfying you or he gets his marching orders.
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It's all of the above reasons you've said, we tried to do it tonight but it was incredibly small and he couldn't even get hard,we tried for hours.
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I guess if you spoke to him about it he would have been feeling under pressure. Really depends now if you are willing to persevere, I probably would for a while at least if I really liked him that is. Why not try telling him not to worry for now, plan an evening with just a good film and a bottle of wine or something, curl up on sofa with scented candles turn the lights down etc then when he's totally not expecting it start giving him oral, see what happens and where it leads.
Has he tried Viagra, or is it painful for him to get an erection?