Never had a girlfriend at (almost) 20?

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Ok so i'm 19, 20 next year, and i've never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl or even so much as held hands with a girl. I'm not fat, ugly or whatever, i just have no self-esteem.

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  • RentingEmotion
    12 years ago | pl

    Start dressing good to raise your own self-esteem. Being confident attracts girls. In all honestly, personality enhances looks. If I had to choose between a sexy guy, or an alright guy with an amazing personality..I'd go for the second one.

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  • yogibear2k2
    6 years ago | pl

    LOL I am 47 and never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl and I am still a virgin. You are still young. You will have plenty of time for that if you want it.

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  • rclay1992
    11 years ago | pl

    I'm a 19 your old guy and never kissed, had a girlfriend, or lost my virginity. Join the club

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  • evildoctorporkchop
    12 years ago | pl

    I'm an 18 year old girl and I've never had a boyfriend despite preferring males as friends all my life, this is pretty much by choice. I've always felt there were better things to do and I really can't be bothered with relationships, I love my own company and I don't think I could stand having someone around like that all the time. Also I'm 'different' and guys don't seem to like anything that isn't the 'generic' girl. I think you have to really want it, just go for it.

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  • pdemtm
    13 years ago | pl

    Yeah I'm 17 and am pretty much the same way. I mean, I have no trouble talking to girls and am not really awkward. I feel like I never get opportunities to hang out with them but maybe that's just a bad excuse. Acne was pretty bad until 16, but not extreme, so maybe a late start. No fair.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Lmao Sellin some at walmart for half off that joke never gets old

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  • EbonyMT
    13 years ago | pl

    Lol I agree with thizzle. Get some and maybe things will change for you.

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    • TheGuruOfTheSauce
      13 years ago | pl

      Lol I hear they're selling some at Walmart for half off. If you haven't had one by now you've lost the game so lower your expectations to like a 2/10 girl head down to the bar and pick up some used up bar fly. Forget what these people say about self esteem all you need to bring is your Meat Tower

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  • thizzle
    13 years ago | pl

    I think yu jus answerd your own question

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