I don't know how old you are, but it sounds like your in or around your teens, because that's when being social and having a boyfriend matters the most. I'm 21, and I got my first boyfriend (officially) a year ago. I'm ashamed that before him, I lost my virginity to a man I thought at the time I was falling for, but it turned out he just wanted my virginity and nothing else. The reason I did that...was because I was desperate for a boyfriend. Believe me, trying to find it won't help. Some people just stay desperate and searching, and become sluts....I don't have a lot of faith in people, but you sound like you can do well. It may be hard, but you have to be patient, or else become someone you prolly don't want to be.
If you're still in high school, it's even more stressful, you're just around the same people everyday. But once you get out in the real world, or maybe you are in the real world and it hasn't hit yet, I don't know...but at some point being around people isn't that important. It's about becoming somebody you want to be, and you'll start meeting people on the way. I'm prolly sounding like your mother...I know I'm sounding like mine, but that's my advice. I've definately been there.
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yes happens to me all the time but vice versa.
If you keep thinking about this then you are going desperate.
Try making friends online through Facebook or PenPay.
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I don't know how old you are, but it sounds like your in or around your teens, because that's when being social and having a boyfriend matters the most. I'm 21, and I got my first boyfriend (officially) a year ago. I'm ashamed that before him, I lost my virginity to a man I thought at the time I was falling for, but it turned out he just wanted my virginity and nothing else. The reason I did that...was because I was desperate for a boyfriend. Believe me, trying to find it won't help. Some people just stay desperate and searching, and become sluts....I don't have a lot of faith in people, but you sound like you can do well. It may be hard, but you have to be patient, or else become someone you prolly don't want to be.
If you're still in high school, it's even more stressful, you're just around the same people everyday. But once you get out in the real world, or maybe you are in the real world and it hasn't hit yet, I don't know...but at some point being around people isn't that important. It's about becoming somebody you want to be, and you'll start meeting people on the way. I'm prolly sounding like your mother...I know I'm sounding like mine, but that's my advice. I've definately been there.