Oh man, that's a really tough situation ...
If he knows she tricked him with the birth control then he knows what's happening, but he apparently decidet to stick with it. Probably because he wants to be a good dad.
If you want to talk to him, I suppose that's where you should start: His child. What is best for this kid's future? If her family uses up all his recources then he won't be able to give this child a good life and I'm sure he doesen't want that. He might be too scared or selfless to stand up for himself but people are quite different when their kid's wellbeing is on the line.
It sucks so much seeing good hearted people being walked all over, I'm sorry.
Need real advice. I'm afraid my friend is being taken advantage of,
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Oh man, that's a really tough situation ...
If he knows she tricked him with the birth control then he knows what's happening, but he apparently decidet to stick with it. Probably because he wants to be a good dad.
If you want to talk to him, I suppose that's where you should start: His child. What is best for this kid's future? If her family uses up all his recources then he won't be able to give this child a good life and I'm sure he doesen't want that. He might be too scared or selfless to stand up for himself but people are quite different when their kid's wellbeing is on the line.
It sucks so much seeing good hearted people being walked all over, I'm sorry.