Need help.. what is this

I always need some reason to get angry at someone. Idk why its like I want people to hate me & I just wanna hate them back. I am not even happy today, my birthday... I am just looking for someone or something to which I can get angry. Wtf is this??
Why do i crave "hate" from someone & wanna hate them back.
Its not always like this... Most of the time I want that feeling of love but I just get annoyed so easily.

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Comments ( 27 )
  • paramore93

    Happy birthday! Just forget it's your birthday and have a normal day, it's a lot less pressure. As for the other stuff, you should try find a good stress release it sounds like you have a lot of pent up emotion.

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  • Happy birthday!!
    Forgive yourself so you can love yourself.

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  • barstool

    I usually get annoyed on my birthday too... not sure if that has anything to do with it.

    Maybe you're just an asshole?

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    • May be.

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  • PanzerGirl

    this usually mean there's something else inside you that you're annoyed at. Go talk to someone and figure it out.

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  • whatsnormalanywayyaknow

    If you're a teenager, this is pretty normal. If you're an adult, it's still pretty normal but you might want to look into some talk therapy. Sounds like a pretty unpleasant way to feel and I'm sure talking it over with someone might help you address the cause a little better

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  • Angelandme

    Smoke some sativa, doesn't matter if it's your first time take big 'ol rips of a bong. I'm srs, I recommend the blue dreams strain. Eventually if you find it helps you may try and smoke the "just enough" amount to help you with your emotions same way a tired individual would drink coffee for his body, this is for the mind though.

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  • Iszzy123

    Try Jesus

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    • I am not much of a religious person. But how is that gonna help me.

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      • Iszzy123

        Well you just trust he’s going to make thinks better and wait then you find ur self less angry

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        • you know... i don't wanna shake your faith in god but its not that easy to trust someone(who you haven't even seen) that he can fix your problem.
          but it doesn't mean that he don't exist. GOD does exist

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          • Iszzy123

            It honestly is that easy when we just put our pride and disbelief aside he is good he is willing and able just put a little faith in him

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            • Well I certainly don't have pride, I am just a skeptical person... But yeah I will try,thnx

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  • papasanta

    happy birthday by the way, you remind me of a guy named Adam

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    • Yeah... why,he was a fuckin weirdo too??

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      • papasanta

        yeah.. he had issues..

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  • papasanta

    I get where you're gettin at.. sorta stems from a brat like you bein spoiled by your momma and dadda gettin whatchu want.

    You sorta just wanna hate on everyone because you think--why do they get it so easy so perfect, my life ain't? what they do to deserve this? there must be some juicy snitch I can use to break you.

    Met some brats like that back in the days, they had issues.

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    • Actually its nothing like that man... They haven't spoiled me, not yet.

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      • papasanta

        Then you're probably this other brat that likes it messy you just want to know how they'll react because most of the time it's funny ..for you anyway.. the way they get fussed up over your bullshit ..

        Maybe you're just secretly flirting with them

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        • No I never find it funny...sorry man you are wrong

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          • papasanta

            (I'm like the second one to be honest)

            Then maybe you're this.. nerd.. that just wants have an intellectual conversation with someone

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            • now you got it exactly right

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  • RoseIsabella

    Happy Birthday!

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    • I am feeling very happy now. Just got the best b'day gift from mom. Not sad anymore & thanks to y'all,love you😘

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      • RoseIsabella

        Right on!

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  • nikkiclaire

    Sounds like low self esteem. Happy Birthday.

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