he sounds like he isnt ready for a serious relationship and get a place together which is understandable only after 4 months. but for him to react this way and treat you like this is not right. you seem like a pretty down to earth chick who is understanding and you just want to know what is going on and its obvious that he cant give you a straight answer. i cant stand games and i would probably do the same thing as you are doing, just trying to figure things out for your own sanity.
perhaps you should just focus on getting yourself back on track, sell your place and move back in with your parents. dont chase him anymore, let him have some time on his own to think about what he wants to do but i wouldnt wait too long before moving on and finding another guy. maybe even start off "fresh" with him. go on dates and see each other every other day and see if that works for you both. best of luck! xx
ya I know when I think about it 4 months is a really short amount of time but I think when you find the right person time doesn't matter. We have a lot of mutual friends and will probably see eachother around. He ended stuff last Friday when he finally called me back, I was trying to get a hold of him to get my key back anyway because I'm done with the games. He said maybe he's just better on his own, so I really have no idea what's going on in his head, but I hope he figures it out and what makes him happy. My friends all hate how he has treated me and I should too but I don't, I still love him. He is a great person just dealt with this whole situation in the wrong way. Going to give him some space and hopefully we can at least be friends. I care about him a lot and would love to be with him but we will wait to see what the future holds I guess. Thanks for the comments.
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he sounds like he isnt ready for a serious relationship and get a place together which is understandable only after 4 months. but for him to react this way and treat you like this is not right. you seem like a pretty down to earth chick who is understanding and you just want to know what is going on and its obvious that he cant give you a straight answer. i cant stand games and i would probably do the same thing as you are doing, just trying to figure things out for your own sanity.
perhaps you should just focus on getting yourself back on track, sell your place and move back in with your parents. dont chase him anymore, let him have some time on his own to think about what he wants to do but i wouldnt wait too long before moving on and finding another guy. maybe even start off "fresh" with him. go on dates and see each other every other day and see if that works for you both. best of luck! xx
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ya I know when I think about it 4 months is a really short amount of time but I think when you find the right person time doesn't matter. We have a lot of mutual friends and will probably see eachother around. He ended stuff last Friday when he finally called me back, I was trying to get a hold of him to get my key back anyway because I'm done with the games. He said maybe he's just better on his own, so I really have no idea what's going on in his head, but I hope he figures it out and what makes him happy. My friends all hate how he has treated me and I should too but I don't, I still love him. He is a great person just dealt with this whole situation in the wrong way. Going to give him some space and hopefully we can at least be friends. I care about him a lot and would love to be with him but we will wait to see what the future holds I guess. Thanks for the comments.