I’m not sure when he said some stuff but he said he just needs his space and that it went too fast and he doesn’t like how he treats his family and friends now, which made no sense to me cause he sees them all the time. We have dinner with his family every Sunday night and I have never stopped him from going anywhere, he apparently just never told me. He said he is just really comfortable when he is with me and doesn’t want to leave when he’s with me. He said he kind of got freaked out when I mentioned the house thing but that was over a month ago and I only mentioned it cause he was staying over every single night, we would make dinner together and were basically living together. He also said he got wiered out when I put the big pile of clothes he had at my house in a drawer. My cat always layed on them and I had an empty drawer so I put them in there, but I guess that was the wrong thing to do. He slept over that night and in the morning we talked a little more, he went to work for a few hours and then I called him. We ended up going to dinner and he stayed over again that night. He went out for some Christmas shopping he said on Sunday and then ended up a friends, was supposed to call me when he got there but never did, I was out that way anyway so I stopped and they were there. It just kind of hurt that he didn’t call me but he said he forgot. I just want to be with him all the time and I know that isn’t possible but I wish he missed me too. He said he doesn’t show his emotions, which is true he’s pretty much like a rock, it takes awhile to get anything out of him. I went to dinner at his parents on Sunday and he just seemed kind of distant. We hung out by ourselves and watched TV afterwards and I asked him if he wanted me to leave, he said no. After awhile it was getting late and I told him I was going to go home and asked if he was coming over (he has every time since August), he said no.It hurts because he came into my life and was there every single day and now just like that, he’s not. Why does it hurt so bad when it doesn’t even seem like he cares?
He said he may stop in the morning on his way to work, but he ended up not. I called him and told him I love him and he said it back, and that was it.
This morning he stopped by and we talked a little, he seemed ok. He gave me a big hug and kiss and said he would talk to me later. I just am still in a funk just very mopey. He said that I’m clingy and he just needs his space now, why all of a sudden? I understand and am trying my best but it hurts, spending every night together for the past four months, to now not seeing eachother at all?
It hurts when he doesn’t call or text at all during the day, I think about him all day. I didn’t want to let him in at the beginning but I let my guard down and this is what happened. What should I do?
Need advice, issues with my boyfriend
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I’m not sure when he said some stuff but he said he just needs his space and that it went too fast and he doesn’t like how he treats his family and friends now, which made no sense to me cause he sees them all the time. We have dinner with his family every Sunday night and I have never stopped him from going anywhere, he apparently just never told me. He said he is just really comfortable when he is with me and doesn’t want to leave when he’s with me. He said he kind of got freaked out when I mentioned the house thing but that was over a month ago and I only mentioned it cause he was staying over every single night, we would make dinner together and were basically living together. He also said he got wiered out when I put the big pile of clothes he had at my house in a drawer. My cat always layed on them and I had an empty drawer so I put them in there, but I guess that was the wrong thing to do. He slept over that night and in the morning we talked a little more, he went to work for a few hours and then I called him. We ended up going to dinner and he stayed over again that night. He went out for some Christmas shopping he said on Sunday and then ended up a friends, was supposed to call me when he got there but never did, I was out that way anyway so I stopped and they were there. It just kind of hurt that he didn’t call me but he said he forgot. I just want to be with him all the time and I know that isn’t possible but I wish he missed me too. He said he doesn’t show his emotions, which is true he’s pretty much like a rock, it takes awhile to get anything out of him. I went to dinner at his parents on Sunday and he just seemed kind of distant. We hung out by ourselves and watched TV afterwards and I asked him if he wanted me to leave, he said no. After awhile it was getting late and I told him I was going to go home and asked if he was coming over (he has every time since August), he said no.It hurts because he came into my life and was there every single day and now just like that, he’s not. Why does it hurt so bad when it doesn’t even seem like he cares?
He said he may stop in the morning on his way to work, but he ended up not. I called him and told him I love him and he said it back, and that was it.
This morning he stopped by and we talked a little, he seemed ok. He gave me a big hug and kiss and said he would talk to me later. I just am still in a funk just very mopey. He said that I’m clingy and he just needs his space now, why all of a sudden? I understand and am trying my best but it hurts, spending every night together for the past four months, to now not seeing eachother at all?
It hurts when he doesn’t call or text at all during the day, I think about him all day. I didn’t want to let him in at the beginning but I let my guard down and this is what happened. What should I do?