Narcissism

yea :o but they sound like they care, i dont know if they actually do

The thing you must understand about narcissist, they don't assume anything bad about themselves. So when reading this, theyll just think, "Oh, this must be about them other people, because I help all the time!!" Or they just plain skip over it due to how little to boost their ego, or how it doesn't it have their name present in the post to gain their direct attention.

Believe me, I have a narcissist as a dad. I've tried this trick of making a comment to get him to think about his own actions out in the open. Despite others looking within themselves and having nice conversations about it, he'll completely look over the fact that he displays these traits and talk about other people. It's a frustrating, and fruitless tactic; it would be best just to comment to the post that made you upset the most and speak to them directly.