Whatever is wrong between you two probably has a lot more to it than just sex.
For a lot of women, sex and intimacy go hand in hand and if something happens to disrupt that intimacy, the sex is usually disrupted too. Something has probably caused a rift in your relationship with her.
If you're pushy about the subject of sex, that is just adding another nail to the coffin. I hate feeling like I am being coerced into sex, I hate feeling like it is a requirement to put out and I hate knowing that any physical contact I give to this guy will probably result in him trying to get fresh with me and I'm not in the mood for that right now so I'm going to avoid physical contact with him and slowly grow apart from him in the process in order to save myself the humiliation of feeling coerced into sex. I don't like feeling like sex is expected of me, if it doesn't come naturally then it shouldn't at all.
She may also have gotten bored. She might be a thrill-seeker and only really gets turned on the most by novelty, hence why the sex may have been great before you guys got married and it became some boring, wooden requirement.
I could list many more possibilities but tl;dr already. Go see a marriage counselor and don't make sex the center of the discussion. Putting her on the spot like that will make things even worse.
thank you a lot for ur comment,
you see,, all this things u mentioned it came to me mind I tried to work on it I tried every solution come to me mind I go on Internet and I read every things related to my situation and all that did not work,,,,
we sited together and discussed our relationship many time and we came with things agreed with two of us , but every time we returned to the start point,,, some time I think she abuse in her childhood maybe ,,
but I will take ur advice and see marriage counselor
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Whatever is wrong between you two probably has a lot more to it than just sex.
For a lot of women, sex and intimacy go hand in hand and if something happens to disrupt that intimacy, the sex is usually disrupted too. Something has probably caused a rift in your relationship with her.
If you're pushy about the subject of sex, that is just adding another nail to the coffin. I hate feeling like I am being coerced into sex, I hate feeling like it is a requirement to put out and I hate knowing that any physical contact I give to this guy will probably result in him trying to get fresh with me and I'm not in the mood for that right now so I'm going to avoid physical contact with him and slowly grow apart from him in the process in order to save myself the humiliation of feeling coerced into sex. I don't like feeling like sex is expected of me, if it doesn't come naturally then it shouldn't at all.
She may also have gotten bored. She might be a thrill-seeker and only really gets turned on the most by novelty, hence why the sex may have been great before you guys got married and it became some boring, wooden requirement.
I could list many more possibilities but tl;dr already. Go see a marriage counselor and don't make sex the center of the discussion. Putting her on the spot like that will make things even worse.
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thank you a lot for ur comment,
you see,, all this things u mentioned it came to me mind I tried to work on it I tried every solution come to me mind I go on Internet and I read every things related to my situation and all that did not work,,,,
we sited together and discussed our relationship many time and we came with things agreed with two of us , but every time we returned to the start point,,, some time I think she abuse in her childhood maybe ,,
but I will take ur advice and see marriage counselor
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