My wife wants to get beat by another man while i watch

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I'm not sure if she's serious but she keeps mentioning it.

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Based on 48 votes (15 yes)
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  • 21cabbage
    5 years ago

    There's one thing that she's sharing a kink and fantasy with you. However, anything in this relationship requires consent on both accounts. If she wants to actually bring this to reality, be sure that everyone stays safe, sane, and consensual, and that you also have a right to deny in this relationship, whether or not you go through with it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      it's not sexual

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    That's jacked up, man.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      it is

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  • SKDM007
    5 years ago

    these stupid cunts dont understand the concept of marriage and self-respect

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Sounds like she's a masochist who wants to get off by cucking you. It's an interesting combination.

    I voted "not normal", but if everyone is on the same page with it, there shouldn't be a big problem. Let her know if you dislike the idea, though.

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  • demitri
    5 years ago

    It is hot if you are into this kind of stuff discuss with her and ask her coz it will lead to sex as well. won't stop at beating. ARE YOU OKAY WITH THAT?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      it's not sexual.

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  • LloydAsher
    5 years ago

    Get a friend and then boom threesome.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      it's not sexual

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      • LloydAsher
        5 years ago

        Ah shit then I guess it isnt normal.

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  • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
    5 years ago

    Beat up with fists? Does she want to get raped?

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    • lolamanilow77
      5 years ago

      you are so blunt...good quality and funny too

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      • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
        5 years ago

        I get it from my mom

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      it's not sexual

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      • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
        5 years ago

        It has to be sexual. What else would she have to gain from getting beat and you watching?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago

          she hates me and wants me to feel emasculated

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          • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
            5 years ago

            Theres better ways for her to do that without her getting beat up. Like just getting another guy to beat YOU up instead of her. She sounds kind of slow.

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          • Ellenna
            5 years ago

            What do you want? Some men get off on being humiliated in that way, but it doesn't seem to me to be a healthy idea in your case, unless you're into it too. If you're not, time to move on.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      No just beat.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Good for her

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      not really

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  • Ellenna
    5 years ago

    I should've asked OP this earlier: what does OP's partner mean by the term "beating"? Spanking, whipping, punching? What are the limits and boundaries?

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Having sex with another man is one thing, getting beaten, ABSOLUTELY NOT!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      it's not sexual

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      • litelander8
        5 years ago

        If Jen said no, don't.

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  • danodan7108
    5 years ago

    My wife definitely has a rape fetish. Likes to get smacked around and held down

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  • Ummitsstillme
    5 years ago

    Her or you?

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  • Ellenna
    5 years ago

    Oh for goodness sake, ASK HER if she's serious or not! Many people (maybe most?) have fantasies that turn them on but which they don't want to really happen.

    If she's bringing this up during sex it's probably a fantasy, but ASK HER away from the sexual context if she really wants this and if you want it too and it can be done in a safe sane & consensual way, set it up. Just be careful, be VERY careful: there's a saying in the BDSM community that fantasies are hungrier than bodies - in other words, sometimes it's better to keep the fantasy if it works rather than act it out, where it may not work at all.

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    • lolamanilow77
      5 years ago

      Ellenna you are right! btw, we've got to chat dear, i have some pretty intense, (and okay.. twisted!) fantasies that definitely involve bondage but prefer advice FIRST by someone with knowledge, and "fantasies are hungrier than bodies" makes me belive you are experienced in bdsm?

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      • Ellenna
        5 years ago

        Yep, have been into it off and on for a very long time with both men and women, mainly as a submissive, which is definitely NOT what I am in the rest of my life, quite the contrary.

        I also worked for a short time as a dominatrix and still do, but only over the phone on sex lines.

        My first recommendation is BE CAREFUL! In my experience, both in casual and longterm relationships, is that very many dominant types get off so much on the power that they drift into non-consensual acts and/or lack of respect generally, also attempts to dominate the submissive outside the sexual scene. This is easy for them to do because there are always more submissives around than dominants.

        COMMUNICATION is essential: clear boundaries and safe words. Build up slowly with someone until you know you can trust them.

        I've never chatted with anyone on this site and don't even know how to do it, but would be happy to do so if you have any specific questions and/or want to share your fantasies. If so, you can initiate chat and I'll respond if I can work out how. I am somewhat technologically challenged, so be patient with me!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      it's not sexual. why does everything have to be sexual

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      • lolamanilow77
        5 years ago

        maybe to YOU it's not sexual but you can bet to the guy who's gonna come to beat her it is! you better think this thru. Ellenna's right

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      • LloydAsher
        5 years ago

        It's kinda funny though every single person who read the thread thought it was a sexual thing. I believe it's because this would be like an offshoot of cuckholding in our collective minds. Cause no normal person under non sexual circumstances would want the shit kicked out of them.

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