My wife wants sex ALL the time
My wife wants sex all the time but, I do not. She is always available and I feel like such a dumb ass for refusing her but, I JUST DON'T FEEL LIKE IT all the time. Sometimes I force myself to perform and when we are in the act it feels great and I really enjoy myself.
One problem which I will not discuss with her is our weight, she has gained and I have lost. She is fairly big and I am the slimmest I have ever been in my adult life. despite her weight she has the attractive face and (especially eyes) I have ever seen. Yet, I'm afraid that the weight issue may not be the problem and I am not vein enough to let her weight stop me from loving her with my entire heart. I love her very, very, very much, we have been married for 12 years and as far as I know we both are very faithful. Thoughts of her make me happy to come home after work and we are both fairly affectionate with not adversity to public displays of affection. It breaks my heart to think that it may hurt her feelings when I cannot get it up
1) Is it normal to love your wife but, not want to have sex?
2) I haven't tried Viagra but am willing to try anything. Anyone have experience with boner pills?
Thanks for your time.