Thanks, It sounds like we may be old enough to be your parents .. we have sons that are 38 and a 35 years old.
I totally agree, it is not all about sex. We kiss and hug each other good night, good morning and good bye (when one of us leaves). But, if I try to kiss, hug or even touch her any other time, she can't seem to stop what she's doing for even 5 seconds to respond. And, again, I'm the one that has to start any of that for it to happen at all. It's nice that she wants to satisfy me but, to be honest, it really isn't much fun without her wanting it too. And, her doing that was only after I said to her 9 months ago that I could understand why guys my age would have a reason to cheat (I never have cheated).
My wife of 42 years is only affectionate if I initiate it
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Thanks, It sounds like we may be old enough to be your parents .. we have sons that are 38 and a 35 years old.
I totally agree, it is not all about sex. We kiss and hug each other good night, good morning and good bye (when one of us leaves). But, if I try to kiss, hug or even touch her any other time, she can't seem to stop what she's doing for even 5 seconds to respond. And, again, I'm the one that has to start any of that for it to happen at all. It's nice that she wants to satisfy me but, to be honest, it really isn't much fun without her wanting it too. And, her doing that was only after I said to her 9 months ago that I could understand why guys my age would have a reason to cheat (I never have cheated).
Am I expecting too much of a woman in her 60's?