You seem like such a kind man. It seems unfair that because she has no interest in intimacy, that you should have a sexless marriage for the rest of your life.
She should try the lube! There are so many good ones on the market today and they are not just for a dry vag. Lots of younger people use them too, they make sex a lot of fun.
Maybe give her a glass or two of wine. It increases testosterone levels in women which increases their libido. And maybe you could be more persistent in your advances, be a Don Juan. Don't feel too bad about her 'rejecting' your advances either. She has just become lazy about responding in a reciprocating manner because she's become comfortable with not wanting it herself.
My wife of 42 years is only affectionate if I initiate it
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You seem like such a kind man. It seems unfair that because she has no interest in intimacy, that you should have a sexless marriage for the rest of your life.
She should try the lube! There are so many good ones on the market today and they are not just for a dry vag. Lots of younger people use them too, they make sex a lot of fun.
Maybe give her a glass or two of wine. It increases testosterone levels in women which increases their libido. And maybe you could be more persistent in your advances, be a Don Juan. Don't feel too bad about her 'rejecting' your advances either. She has just become lazy about responding in a reciprocating manner because she's become comfortable with not wanting it herself.