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About 3 months ago my wife, whom I loved very much left me and started dating a black guy. Something I'am completely against. This hurt so badly that I am filled with anger, and hate. I have dated a couple of girls who have wanted relationships, but I feel incapable of emotion. Is this normal? And any advice anyone can offer?
It is perfectly fine to feel hurt and anger, even numbness, but in regard to your "something I am completely against" statement, of course she should not have left you but what the fuck does it matter what race the man was? I'm sick of hearing people pull the racist thing. It's like, get over it, everyone is human, everyone is equal whether you like it or not, nothing can change that.
You should feel honored. That's a clean break. At least you don't have to wonder what he has that you don't. He's giving her something you clearly could not. It's as if she left you for a millionaire. Understandable. You should trip if she left you for some joe schmoe like yourself.
Move on to the next white chick. They either won't date black men at all, or they're "into" black men. And the ones who crave black are so rare, chances are you won't get jerked again. The next one will jerk you with some other issue.
I'm glad everyone has decided to beat an already dead cow by giving a poor obviously pathetic man grief about his insignificant racism seeing as how it doesn't solve this problem.
I say you, get a black girlfriend that is ill tempered and have her beat down your white ex
-simple as that-
Its laughable isn't it? I hear black women say all the time that they refuse to date white men, for some reason or another. Now does that make them racist? No, its a personal choice, man i hate these liberal fags who take any chance they can to call a white person racist.
My fiancee is white. I'm white. She is not attracted to black guys or any guys with any shades of color for that matter. She only likes white guys. Neither of us are racist and I actually have a big black friend named Chan who is like almost 7' tall (Literally) and he plays in a country band as a bassist/singer. Just because they have a "bigger package" doesn't mean they are great in the sack. There are alot of guys who think bigger is better when it's all in how you use it. My fiancee thinks I'm too long and too big sometimes. And that can have a major effect on your inner mind.
boyracer -very insensitive and hurtful comment ,you truly live up to your name,
she has left you ,she may love this man that she is with , however you are still grieving and feel satisfaction by using his race as an issue,perhaps if she was with a white guy you would imply his religion as an issue ,your just using a characteristic of him to direct your anger.which is understandable and any sane person could realise your just venting
think of this as a blessing a time to reflect on what happened ,learn ,and find another who can unravel the mystery that is you,
you learn from every relationship,i just wish you all the best ,calm down and try and isolate what went wrong ,i suggest counselling
lol... why do u hate black people? Your ex wife clearly loves them...hahahah
Whether he's black or not, I'm not interested in that. The fact that she deliberately undermined her marriage for her own selfish reasons shows that she's just low and pathetic.
But yes, sadly you get a lot of lazy degenerates like these setting our race back several decades these days. I blame labour esque governments.
well you know what they say about black men, im talking about below the waist package.
i hope you dont mind me asking, but just how big are you? would it satisfy her?
if not, i can totally understand why she would go for a black man,
sorry, thats just the way it is.
"sorry, thats just the way it is."
No, that's NOT just the way it is, retard. Blacks do NOT have bigger dicks than whites. That's just an urban legend. I've NEVER seen ANY hard (no pun intended) evidence for it. On the contrary, I've seen more than enough porn to be able to conclude that it's 100% B.S. (not that I explicitly focus on dicks BTW, haha).
lotta girls like black guys because they have a thrilling sence of sexuality... they dont oral girls and have a large penis ... both thise things are big turnons to me ,, and guys that act so polite and needy to girls really turn me off .... espically when a guy orals me ... he's like pathetic looking to me ... i think your wife craves for a real man in many ways and you just diddnt live up to her
White pussy easy meat.
Your lucky she's gone now you can find a good woman or a black one
Maybe is because black men have biiger penises and are much better lovers than white folks. Sadly, it's scientifically proven. Girls are more attracted to alpha males and powerful hung black man will most likely overpower your loveing abilities my friend. Sorry.
hey cut the racism bs
you're so racist when u said "i'm totally against such things" or whatever..
she likes the other guy,that guy's got more charm than you,and thats it
u try to work on ur personality,and behaviour around people
Another dumb remark from Ollieo. Did you see anything in his post that made him seem like a racist you fucking idiot? All he did was tell the facts, his wife left him for a man that happened to be black.
I would be angry, its normal to be angry, besides that you have alot of blacks who are thugs and criminals in this country. This is a fact not racism, when you look at statistics of crime or live around alot of blacks.
That being said if the black guy was a standup guy and made a living, id say alright thats her choice im moving on too. But if hes a thug loser, i would be mad as would most men.
I'm glad she left you and I hope he uses his big black dick to fuck her raw to the thought of your racist hate filled tears
My wife left me for a black man as well and a few weeks later we were all having dinner together. " GOD WORKS"!!!
Men and women both do things for a lot of different reasons. You will never take a poll were every one agrees, and certainly Not for the same reasons.
People need to look for people who feel like they do and respect other peoples choices, at very least we can agree to disagree, Co exist, move forwarded and be happy! After all isn't that what its all about ?
After being hurt in a relationship it is(VERY)normal.
However you are adding extra pain on yourself by being against interracial dating, it's not for you to say who dates who accept for yourself.
This may help, as a person who has friends in multiple
nationality's black men do not all have big penises from both black men and woman own experiences and that's not the top priority for(all)women, if it were there would be no lesbians and black women would never leave there husbands/boy friends. So don't believe the Hype!
i think its normal...my mother told me that after she had a sexuel experience with her black lover, she never wants to sleep with my father anymore...
I was married for 21 years and after separation my wife started dating younger black men. I'm sure it is for the sex because that, a constant weed connection, and 20 inch rims on a Honda accord is all they have given her. No health benefits, dental, car payment or rent has been offered. I guess after 21 years of not giving it up to me they reap the benefit. Good for them, maybe she has found the key to happiness.
And as for the rumor about coming back after black, it's not as accurate as our well endowed black men may think. I have had sex with two black women and two women who only dated black men prior to meeting me, and they all wanted as much sex as they could get with me. I'm an average white boy, but I have had no complaints. Some women just need it more than anything else. Hope she chokes on it, without her dentures in LOL!!!!
Well, please read this. This really comes down to intelligence. Ask yourself, what do you really want in a mate? Someone who can make good decisions based on logic, and critical thinking or someone who does whatever feels good and forget the consequences. Your ex is probably a moron, and you would likely be so sick of this iddiot if you would have stayed with her. Be thanking God she is gone.
hi i am 32 turkish male. and i have a very sexy attractive fit 45 years old jamaican black girlfriend. she was divorced from her black hubby and now dating me. we can live these kind of cases.color is nothing. she prefereed me and said me that i am much betetr than her ex black hubby sexually, emotionally and mentally. she is so honst that she could tell me that his cock is mucg bigegr than me. dontt lose your self confidence and try to open a new page.
Dammm ...... wtf is all this about bigger dicks and suchlike... man there is no evidence about bigger dicks in race apart from arabs ( see durex research on subject) Man i have bedded so many black girls and I am white that have said no blackman has ever made her cum like I did... so where all this bs is coming from I know not!
Ive bedded white 2 girls that had only bedded blackmen and came out tops... man I aint never seen a black dick bigger than mine .... and by the way I think its also a myth that black cock tastes of licorice...
Get over the fact that the guy was black. The fact is she left you, no matter what color he was. I'm sure there's many more white women to choose from. Just hope they don't have fantasies about black men.
Take time for yourself. You have the right to feel the way you do. And in time after seeing someone and talking about your feelings someone better will come into your life.
Ok so either she actually has feelings for this guy and loves him and u need to move on or she knows it pisses u off n is tryin to get ur attention try n find out
lol my friend always says.
Once you go black you never go back.
But hey KARMA Is a bit*h
& i am glad you have stayed faithful maybe she didn't deserve you.
I guess she just wanted to spite you or something. You might as well be against love because you don't chose who you fall for and in your wife eyes, she obviously didn't fall for you.
haha thats funny i'm sorry to hear that, shit happens, i just hope that doesn't happen to me!!
I was with a girl for a long time, and we broke up. I feel the same way that I am incapable of trusting another girl, and that I wont love or care about another girl the same ever.
Stop being so bitter and full of hate, your only hurting yourself. next girl try and find similar morals in to avoid this feeling again.
She jus does'nt love you anymore, so you must face the fact that life is very bitter and what you thought was love that she had for you was not love. You must look in to why she left you and never make the same mistake with another woman because, love is not love but is likeness.
wake up just date alot of women until you find the right one to be in a relationship. get out and enjoy life to your fullest for get her.
Your wife is a no good two timing whore, fuck her! get yourself a honest to goodness woman and flaunt her in front of your stupid whore of a wife!
You're against interracial relationships? She obviously isn't. Sounds like you were radically different in certain ways of thinking.
My advice is to turn gay and send her pics if anything it will confuse the hell out of her and anger her!!