It's not your trust in her, It's common sense.
Maybe I'm cunical but people are people, there have been countless people who never had any intention of cheating and yet ended up doing so simply because, they ended up working late with someone, or other mundane things.
This is well beyond that, this is putting her in a position where she is expected to be sexual and in a club you said yourself is notorious for ''extra favors''.
I'm sorry but you've either got to put your foot down or accept that she'll cheat.
Because let's be honest even if she does stay faithful, you won't believe her, you're even saying here you're afraid. In which case either she does betray your trust or you believe she does and treat her wrong out of anger, either way it's not healthy for either of you.
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It's not your trust in her, It's common sense.
Maybe I'm cunical but people are people, there have been countless people who never had any intention of cheating and yet ended up doing so simply because, they ended up working late with someone, or other mundane things.
This is well beyond that, this is putting her in a position where she is expected to be sexual and in a club you said yourself is notorious for ''extra favors''.
I'm sorry but you've either got to put your foot down or accept that she'll cheat.
Because let's be honest even if she does stay faithful, you won't believe her, you're even saying here you're afraid. In which case either she does betray your trust or you believe she does and treat her wrong out of anger, either way it's not healthy for either of you.
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