I do trust my wife but I spoke to her stripper friend and I now know that at this place the girls lap dance in booths that have curtains that the clients can pull across for privacy.
Because the girls are naked, they get fingered and groped a lot. But if they want a heavy tip, most of the girls let the men fuck them. What I'm concerned about is if she is offered enough, she might remind herself that we need the money and end up taking the money.
I don't want to let her but what does it say for my trust in her? She said she'd be faithful but I also know that she'll do what she has do to get us out of trouble with the money we owe.
She's absolutely determined to do it, we've obviously talked a lot about it BUT...I just don't know.
It's not your trust in her, It's common sense.
Maybe I'm cunical but people are people, there have been countless people who never had any intention of cheating and yet ended up doing so simply because, they ended up working late with someone, or other mundane things.
This is well beyond that, this is putting her in a position where she is expected to be sexual and in a club you said yourself is notorious for ''extra favors''.
I'm sorry but you've either got to put your foot down or accept that she'll cheat.
Because let's be honest even if she does stay faithful, you won't believe her, you're even saying here you're afraid. In which case either she does betray your trust or you believe she does and treat her wrong out of anger, either way it's not healthy for either of you.
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I do trust my wife but I spoke to her stripper friend and I now know that at this place the girls lap dance in booths that have curtains that the clients can pull across for privacy.
Because the girls are naked, they get fingered and groped a lot. But if they want a heavy tip, most of the girls let the men fuck them. What I'm concerned about is if she is offered enough, she might remind herself that we need the money and end up taking the money.
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that is a very likely scenario, don't let her do it
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I don't want to let her but what does it say for my trust in her? She said she'd be faithful but I also know that she'll do what she has do to get us out of trouble with the money we owe.
She's absolutely determined to do it, we've obviously talked a lot about it BUT...I just don't know.
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It's not your trust in her, It's common sense.
Maybe I'm cunical but people are people, there have been countless people who never had any intention of cheating and yet ended up doing so simply because, they ended up working late with someone, or other mundane things.
This is well beyond that, this is putting her in a position where she is expected to be sexual and in a club you said yourself is notorious for ''extra favors''.
I'm sorry but you've either got to put your foot down or accept that she'll cheat.
Because let's be honest even if she does stay faithful, you won't believe her, you're even saying here you're afraid. In which case either she does betray your trust or you believe she does and treat her wrong out of anger, either way it's not healthy for either of you.
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Maybe I'm cynical