1. If she's willing to stop the affair, you two can get marriage counseling to build the trust.
2. Divorce. She known of her sexuality from the start and never shared it with you, married you while pretending to be a heterosexual woman, and had an affair with her friend for 2 years out of the 4 years of marriage (was it even 2 years or more? You'll always wonder, because she lied from the start). The trust is broken.
3. This option is a bit unorthodox. If you really not ready to leave her, and she wants to continue cheating, then both of you agree to make it an open-relationship to make this fair. It'll hurt to know she's getting it from someone else, but it gives you the freedom to search and explore while you slowly let her go at your own pace (while she's still around). This will cause a lot of resentment to build while you're grieving for the lost of your marriage. This option I do not recommend, but it's there.
My wife has admitted that she is having a lesbian relationship
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Your wife is a cheater.
You have three options:
1. If she's willing to stop the affair, you two can get marriage counseling to build the trust.
2. Divorce. She known of her sexuality from the start and never shared it with you, married you while pretending to be a heterosexual woman, and had an affair with her friend for 2 years out of the 4 years of marriage (was it even 2 years or more? You'll always wonder, because she lied from the start). The trust is broken.
3. This option is a bit unorthodox. If you really not ready to leave her, and she wants to continue cheating, then both of you agree to make it an open-relationship to make this fair. It'll hurt to know she's getting it from someone else, but it gives you the freedom to search and explore while you slowly let her go at your own pace (while she's still around). This will cause a lot of resentment to build while you're grieving for the lost of your marriage. This option I do not recommend, but it's there.