I suggest that you ask her how she felt about it: What she enjoyed and what she has 2nd thoughts on (if any).
Then you can discuss that you were uncomfortable with how it progressed. If you really listen to your wife - and she listens to you... It's likely to enhance your own sex life (maybe you'd like her to give you lap dances too - and maybe she would love the opportunity).
You're responsible enough to give this all time to work out what you and she are comfortable with. She will understand if you want her to limit some things (and perhaps never do it again). Just be sure that you can provide her with the kind of things and excitement she needs as well. I'm betting that if she really enjoyed it and it meant a lot to her that you said yes... that you will find a middle ground.
My wife gave our friend a lap dance
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I suggest that you ask her how she felt about it: What she enjoyed and what she has 2nd thoughts on (if any).
Then you can discuss that you were uncomfortable with how it progressed. If you really listen to your wife - and she listens to you... It's likely to enhance your own sex life (maybe you'd like her to give you lap dances too - and maybe she would love the opportunity).
You're responsible enough to give this all time to work out what you and she are comfortable with. She will understand if you want her to limit some things (and perhaps never do it again). Just be sure that you can provide her with the kind of things and excitement she needs as well. I'm betting that if she really enjoyed it and it meant a lot to her that you said yes... that you will find a middle ground.
Keep her happy - and she keeps you happy.
I wish you the best with this,