My wife gave our friend a lap dance

We’re celebrating our friend’s twenty eighth birthday last week and my wife asked me if she can give him a lap dance just for fun. I didn’t think much about it and said yes. She gave him a lap dance and it bothered me how she was really grinding on him but I didn’t want to ruin the party. After few minutes, our friend started shaking and it was obvious that he came from the stain on his crotch. Everyone laughed but me obviously. My wife took the whole thing as a joke between friends. I’m the only one who didn’t but because I approved it, I can’t really say anything.

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  • Keep an eye on her, she sounds like a cheater.

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    • cc9az

      she asked and he approved that is not cheating

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    • I’m sure she’s not

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  • Clunk42

    Well, you've clearly learned your lesson. The past is the past; don't give her permission to do it again, and the problem is solved.

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    • litelander8

      I agree. But OP should also let her know he didn’t realize he’d feel that way about it so she knows it’s not ok to do again.

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  • Pjcsr

    I enjoy watching my wife give friends a lap dance.

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    • cc9az

      she knows she has it made and will not leave

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    • Seriously?!

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  • Bazinga

    She will want a double penetration eventually. Just make sure you are included in the fun.

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  • OQ

    Why did she want to give him a lap dance? I think you need to start there. A lap dance is grinding on somebody’s groin. If he came the there was some effort involved. Start digging Sherlock.

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    • Wisconsindaddyfox

      Sounds like breaking the ice to start swinging, a threesome with another man, or cuckold

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    • She’s never done it before and what made me approve was the fact that our friend was definitely an unattractive guy

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      • OQ

        It’s been a little bit of time passed now. What about it bothers you now?

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        • It just worries me that she did something very sexual with another guy and felt that it was nothing. Having said that, she never did anything suspicious and even when she gave our friend the lap dance, she asked before. I think it’s just a matter of time until I forget about it.

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          • OQ

            Hopefully it was exactly what she said it was. Ppl are gonna go crazy with their opinions (I damn sure did)and weren’t there and they don’t know your wife and they don’t understand the dynamics of your relationship. Which are all important variables. Can’t change the past but in the future get you friend a dirty hooker instead. Good luck man.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Excellent point!

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  • fatok

    You should share her with your friend for a 3some. tag team her of give her a good DP

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    • cc9az

      as long as can not get pregnant go for it

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  • randypete

    my wife di that too and gave him a blow job that got me very hard

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    • John671671

      Just curious. How can you like seeing another man cum in your wife’s mouth?

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  • YE

    Personally, I would be bothered if I learned that my partner is sleeping around.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Infidelity is an immediate dealbreaker for me!

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  • LondonGoldman

    I call bullshit that he came from grinding.

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    • Strangeways

      I don't see why not. I was quite turned on just by the idea of this.

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    • S0UNDS_WEIRD

      Maybe not if he was a really nerdy virgin type and that was the whole point of it.

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      • He’s actually a nerd and I know for a fact that he hasn’t had sex in at least a year

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  • In this moment it wasn't your wife making love to another man; she her own woman enjoying her own sexuality

    You know how men can feel really good walking around Wal-Mart in muscle shirts? Women can feel the same about being desired

    She just used her ability to attract men to tease y'all's friend into cumming. It may have made her horny too, but it's almost the same thing as being captivated by watching women do yoga, you know you send signals that she'll pick up on that turns her on even if she shows she doesn't appreciate such shallow attention

    So the main thing to consider it was a sexual act, not making love. Now maybe you'll say that's what every guy says when he's caught cheating, but a fully clothed lap dance is a little different than just wearing a condom, don't you think?

    You could even consider it charity work. He's obviously thirsty enough to cum his pants, so it's not really a threat to you in that regard, and it also shows you were capable in attracting a partner with high market value, and you being cool with it so much more cognitively developed than becoming jealous

    Just throw a few jokes around with beers

    "That will be your last time with a 10" is a clever one I came up with in 2 seconds, it let's him and everyone else know it was a one time deal and that you know your wife better than anyone if you're not sweating her making him cum and it doesn't make you a dick because clearly you're just outlining some understandable ground rules while making it feel like a joke

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    • angelsbreath

      what the fuck.

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    • What you’re saying makes complete sense but I’m not planning to bring this up again unless something concerning is going on

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    • whythisworld

      Very correctly, practically explained. Sure, the woman just re-lived her sexuality. Its more like a teasing

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      • OQ

        Ya and only at the expense of humiliating the man she’s committed to. She made a guy bust a nut in front of him and a group of people. I just thought of that in like 1.8 seconds.

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        • Maybe he should have thought of that before agreeing to it

          It's now her fault her man spoke without thinking? And if the relationship falls apart over it it probably wouldn't have lasted anyway. There's nothing wrong with being selective about who you want to be with for the rest of your life. Maybe this is just a consequence of starting a relationship based on how good someone's game was in the beginning

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  • Orphan

    Well that's kinda hot, why u so bummed about it? Your wife seems to be the shit

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  • Somenormie

    10 times no.

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  • MonteMetcalfe

    The two of them will be fucking behind your back in 5, 4, 3...

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  • Strangeways

    I've found there's often a big difference between what you think you'd like your partner to do, sexually, and what it actually turns out you can deal with. My partner's got drunk and misbehaved in public before now and I really didn't like it although I thought I'd be turned on by it. I agree with the poster who said you need to explain this fully, when you try and make it right again.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Yeah, I personally think it's messed up in my less than humble opinion.

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  • S0UNDS_WEIRD

    Well you kind of fucked up by agreeing, but you could still just trash her for even asking in the first place, which is what I would have done on the spot.

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    • RoseIsabella

      For the life of me I can't understand why anyone would ever say yes to such a request.

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  • olderdude-xx

    I suggest that you ask her how she felt about it: What she enjoyed and what she has 2nd thoughts on (if any).

    Then you can discuss that you were uncomfortable with how it progressed. If you really listen to your wife - and she listens to you... It's likely to enhance your own sex life (maybe you'd like her to give you lap dances too - and maybe she would love the opportunity).

    You're responsible enough to give this all time to work out what you and she are comfortable with. She will understand if you want her to limit some things (and perhaps never do it again). Just be sure that you can provide her with the kind of things and excitement she needs as well. I'm betting that if she really enjoyed it and it meant a lot to her that you said yes... that you will find a middle ground.

    Keep her happy - and she keeps you happy.

    I wish you the best with this,

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