My wife discovered my masturbation with a web camera

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My wife discovered that I have been chatting, fantasizing, camming and masturbating online with various women. She is devistated and no longer trusts me. I have tried to tell her that it was purely masturbation, but she feels that if there's is a live person on the other side then its cheating and adultry. I never intended to do this for any other purpose than self pleasure and fantasy. She wants nothing to do. About my opinion

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  • deepthought33
    13 years ago

    Yea that is how I feel about camming or phone sex too. If there is another live person at the other end then the line has been crossed. Problem with that "line" I just mentioned is that many people don't even discuss where that is. It is pretty easy to compromise and finalize what is and isn't crossing the line...but you have to talk about it first. She assumed one thing and you assumed another. Hopefully she'll have the wisdom to see that the problem is more about your and her communication than about you cheating on her.
    You obviously hurt her though. From the woman's perspective, if I FEEL cheated on then I WAS cheated on because my body and mind are going to react the same way regardless of how the other person justifies it. She can get over it, she can forgive you, she can regain her trust in you, but you kinda have to validate your behavior as inappropriate and let her work through it the way she will.
    And no, I don't think I am being biased--I would expect no less from her if you were the one SHE had hurt.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    You are cheating. I feel sorry for your wife.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    your a real bastard yano.

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  • Eri03smith
    11 years ago

    I love masturbating online too :-) hit me up.

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  • DollyBoots
    11 years ago

    You sick piece of shit!! Your a dirty pig fucking cock sucking wanker!! I hope she leaves and you fucking drown in a rotten old well!!!):< motherfucking ball swallowing faggot!

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