My voice is too "feminine" for a female so people don't take me seriously?
Is this normal?
I've had so many comments like you sound like a 15 year old girl (I'm an adult), you could never be a boss because you sound too feminine and not comanding, you need to talk differently if you want people to listen to you, etc. I literally had someone at my work tell me I need to change how I talk because I sound too "sweet" and "girly" and that no one listens to me because of this. They said just harden your voice when you talk.
I don't try to sound feminine, I just do.
At work, it's true that when I'm telling someone what to do, they typically dont listen to me so I kind of hate my voice. Everyone around me has more rough voices and mine is just flaky
Normal?