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Is it normal that me and my boyfriend(both virgins) tried having sex last night and neither of us could get it in the hole. I don't know where it is and don't tell me to find it myself, and he had trouble. Basically, we never ended up having sex last night. Any advice?
Wow, that's all incorrect. I do, in fact, masturbate and we have done sexual things, he just touches my clit and doesn't need to go that far down to 'explore'. Also, I'm not fat, I'm really thin and no, I don't use tampons. I'm not being pressured into it, and neither is he. I'm not really young, I'm eighteen and he's nineteen. I'm sexually educated, I know how to use a condom and birth control and seeing as I used both, I know what I'm doing. We ended up solving the problem, it was just the way I was laying. So, don't try to know what's going on, when you're not even close.
Do you not wear tampons? Are you really fat with huge rolls of skin? How do you not find the hole yourself?
1. If you cannot find 'the hole' then you don't need to be having or trying to have sex. Basic sex ed teaches you where the genitals are. 2. If you have never explored or touched yourself, why the hell would you try to attempt sex first? You generally start out with masturbation then work your way up to sex. It sounds like you are not interested in sex and were pressured into it. 3. You sound really young. Young + sexually uneducated + peer pressure = never good results. Don't become a statistic. Just wait until you are more mature to try again. The mishap that happened last night could have saved your future. Learn from this.
How do you not know where the hole is? You have your period, right? Cant you feel where the blood comes out? That's your vagina :)
Try different positions. Like lotus or desk chair. if he's hard he should be able to get in. Using a small bit of of lube to help. Best of luck.
The point was that I was asking for help. The first person gave good advice, which is what I wanted.
best way ask your BF to play around with your whole first with his finger if he aint retarded hell find it ...or watch porn...heaps and heaps of porn...
You've not convinced me that my three points are not true. Please be careful.