I mean... he's 13! U're bathing him! He's probably discovered masturbation by now and knows stuff about sex. When u bathe him, I'm pretty sure he doesn't look at u as just his baby sitter.
I personally disagree though, I think it's okay, my neighbor bathed with his mom till he was 15, and I too agree that's abnormally long but he seems okay, and is quite a decent fellow.
How is it any different? It's not like anything's going to happen, from what the OP said, it seems her sister doesn't have any sexual attraction to the child, but was doing it in an innocent manner, hence she didn't see anything in it.
How is this anything but harmless portrayal of affection?
I'm not sure how to phase it out though, should I just tell him to bathe by himself tomorrow? I don't want him to start wondering if something went wrong all of a sudden.
Or should we ease out of it slowly? and how exactly do I do that?
Though I did get my sis to agree to stop bathing with him, we're both still giving him a bath.
I've also come to the conclusion to let her hug him till he falls asleep, but no longer.
Just tell him he's a grown up now, so he should start doing grown up stuff. or sth like that, ur the baby sitter! U should know better!
If he disagrees, then it's probably been more than just a bath for him.
My twin sister bathes with the little boy we babysit.
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I mean... he's 13! U're bathing him! He's probably discovered masturbation by now and knows stuff about sex. When u bathe him, I'm pretty sure he doesn't look at u as just his baby sitter.
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And why exactly is this a bad thing?
I personally disagree though, I think it's okay, my neighbor bathed with his mom till he was 15, and I too agree that's abnormally long but he seems okay, and is quite a decent fellow.
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His mon, not his baby sitter.
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How is it any different? It's not like anything's going to happen, from what the OP said, it seems her sister doesn't have any sexual attraction to the child, but was doing it in an innocent manner, hence she didn't see anything in it.
How is this anything but harmless portrayal of affection?
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Should I or Shouldn't I allow my sister to bathe with him? I already told her not to.
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I'm not sure how to phase it out though, should I just tell him to bathe by himself tomorrow? I don't want him to start wondering if something went wrong all of a sudden.
Or should we ease out of it slowly? and how exactly do I do that?
Though I did get my sis to agree to stop bathing with him, we're both still giving him a bath.
I've also come to the conclusion to let her hug him till he falls asleep, but no longer.
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Just tell him he's a grown up now, so he should start doing grown up stuff. or sth like that, ur the baby sitter! U should know better!
If he disagrees, then it's probably been more than just a bath for him.
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I'll try that.