People grow up, believe it or not, it happens. You can't protect his innocence forever, you have to let him grow up naturally. Kids will be curious and things happen. You can't keep him sheltered forever. If you really don't want your sis to be his first kiss then maybe it will have to be you. Otherwise you'll just have to relax and let it go. They are both okay with the situation, so no one is getting hurt.
No, she can't keep him sheltered, but that doesn't mean that she should have sexual relations with him to speed the growing up process along! Seriously, you're giving TERRIBLE advice! You kind of seem like a pervert.
Yeah give it a try. You should all be fine, and I wouldn't worry about it. Just comforting him until he falls asleep should be good. The hugs and kisses are perfectly normal too.
Let us know how it all goes!
My twin sister bathes with the little boy we babysit.
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People grow up, believe it or not, it happens. You can't protect his innocence forever, you have to let him grow up naturally. Kids will be curious and things happen. You can't keep him sheltered forever. If you really don't want your sis to be his first kiss then maybe it will have to be you. Otherwise you'll just have to relax and let it go. They are both okay with the situation, so no one is getting hurt.
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No, she can't keep him sheltered, but that doesn't mean that she should have sexual relations with him to speed the growing up process along! Seriously, you're giving TERRIBLE advice! You kind of seem like a pervert.
I guess, I spoke to her and she agreed to back out half heartedly,
she'll still be babysitting and I agreed to compromise and let her cuddle him but no more bathing with him.
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That doesn't sound too bad. Maybe you could try out what she's doing to see whats so good about it for her
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I guess it's worth a try.
It might make him less upset about the bathing issue.
but I'm worried if it's legally appropriate to sleep with a child under your care.
I had my sister agree to only stay in the bed as long as needed(till he falls asleep), I hope such a short while may be okay.
We still give him hugs and kisses, I'm sure that's okay.
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Yeah give it a try. You should all be fine, and I wouldn't worry about it. Just comforting him until he falls asleep should be good. The hugs and kisses are perfectly normal too.
Let us know how it all goes!