Nothing about this is normal one bit. It's NOT normal for a 17 year old to bathe naked with a 12 year old. Period. If the genders were swapped in this scenario, holy hell, people would be raining hatred and contempt down upon both of you. The sleeping together and cuddling needs to stop too.
Unless you want this to continue and/or get MUCH worse VERY soon (if it isn't already worse than you even know), you should tell someone immediately. 'Getting everyone into trouble' is the least of concerns here... You know it's wrong, and so does she.
My twin sister bathes with the little boy we babysit.
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Nothing about this is normal one bit. It's NOT normal for a 17 year old to bathe naked with a 12 year old. Period. If the genders were swapped in this scenario, holy hell, people would be raining hatred and contempt down upon both of you. The sleeping together and cuddling needs to stop too.
Unless you want this to continue and/or get MUCH worse VERY soon (if it isn't already worse than you even know), you should tell someone immediately. 'Getting everyone into trouble' is the least of concerns here... You know it's wrong, and so does she.
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Unfortunately she doesn't see it that way, she argues that her behavior is absolutely normal and that I'm making a mountain out of a mole hill.
She refuses to see how her actions may be misconstrued as harassment or child molestation.
The comparison if the genders were reversed is a good one, I'll use that next time.
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None of that matters.
The only thing that matters right now is that you do the right thing. Tell the parents.
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I was hoping not to get them involved.
I've spoken to my sis already, I just hope she keeps to her word.
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In my opinion, you are wrong for not telling them. That's all I have to say on this matter.
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But if I tell them, they might call the cops.
And I don't want all this to end with her in jail or with a record, especially now that I've made some progress in making her back down.
she is my sister after all, and she didn't have any bad intentions, even though her behavior was borderline sexual.
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They should call the cops. You obviously care about your sister, but you need to come to terms that she needs help.