Women should always trust their gut feelings when it comes to guys. If this feels wrong to you, then there's most likely something squirrelly going on his his head. Whether it's something really nasty, only he can say, but it would be wisest for you to assume the worst.
If you like the guy and you think that he and your mother are good together, then dealing with this might be a little tricky. Telling your mother about this would probably be the least confrontational thing for you, but it could create all sorts of tensions in the house.
I suspect that maybe the best first step would be for you to tell him clearly that you don't like what he's doing. If he really is a decent guy, he should simply accept that and stop. If he asks you to explain why, tells you that you're being over-sensitive, tries to dismiss your request in any other way or just ignores your request and continues, then he's really not a nice guy at all, and you'll need to involve your mother.
If she doesn't accept what you say at face value and take your side, then she's not a very nice person either.
my stepdad makes me uncomfortable
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He's totally out of line.
Women should always trust their gut feelings when it comes to guys. If this feels wrong to you, then there's most likely something squirrelly going on his his head. Whether it's something really nasty, only he can say, but it would be wisest for you to assume the worst.
If you like the guy and you think that he and your mother are good together, then dealing with this might be a little tricky. Telling your mother about this would probably be the least confrontational thing for you, but it could create all sorts of tensions in the house.
I suspect that maybe the best first step would be for you to tell him clearly that you don't like what he's doing. If he really is a decent guy, he should simply accept that and stop. If he asks you to explain why, tells you that you're being over-sensitive, tries to dismiss your request in any other way or just ignores your request and continues, then he's really not a nice guy at all, and you'll need to involve your mother.
If she doesn't accept what you say at face value and take your side, then she's not a very nice person either.