So I'm really mixed up about this one. When I was growing up I lost most of my boyfriends to backstabbing friends that stole them from me. So when I got a chance, I had NO hesitation on giving a 'friend' a taste of their own medicine just before they got married. After I was married a few years, my husband got the hots for my younger sister. At first he just asked me questions like "did you two ever mess around?" NO, Don't be gross, she's my sister! Then they started flirting. At first I was alarmed. NORMAL Right? but then later I started getting turned on thinking about it!?
I didn't mean to but I found myself bragging about my husband to my sister more, and visa versa. How does a good wife tell her sister and her husband it is REALLY ok with her for them to cheat together? I was REALLY mixed up in my head. The more things heated up between them, the more scarce I made myself and stayed busy turning a blind eye.
I wasn't REALLY unaware. They just THOUGHT I was. I can't explain why, but I was INCREDIBLY PROUD of my husband and happy for my sister. While they were having their affair my husband was the BEST husband EVER! I remember feeling that if this was what it was like to have a cheating husband than I was happy for him to cheat for the rest of our lives.
When it ended, it ended by my sister confronting me and telling me all the horrible things they did. She was VERY determined to talk me into divorcing my husband. She wanted me to choose family over marriage. I told her I couldn't believe everything she said. I'd have to think about things. The truth was ugly. I didn't like having everything thrown in my face like that. I didn't leave him. We are still together. My sister an I don't talk much and we never shared like we used to before all that happened.
I think it is normal for husbands to be attracted to other women. I think you and your sister's husband have taken it past normal. I'm not one to judge. I'm just asking, NOT to ever make it an UGLY family OUT IN THE OPEN subject.
My sisters husband keeps hitting on me
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So I'm really mixed up about this one. When I was growing up I lost most of my boyfriends to backstabbing friends that stole them from me. So when I got a chance, I had NO hesitation on giving a 'friend' a taste of their own medicine just before they got married. After I was married a few years, my husband got the hots for my younger sister. At first he just asked me questions like "did you two ever mess around?" NO, Don't be gross, she's my sister! Then they started flirting. At first I was alarmed. NORMAL Right? but then later I started getting turned on thinking about it!?
I didn't mean to but I found myself bragging about my husband to my sister more, and visa versa. How does a good wife tell her sister and her husband it is REALLY ok with her for them to cheat together? I was REALLY mixed up in my head. The more things heated up between them, the more scarce I made myself and stayed busy turning a blind eye.
I wasn't REALLY unaware. They just THOUGHT I was. I can't explain why, but I was INCREDIBLY PROUD of my husband and happy for my sister. While they were having their affair my husband was the BEST husband EVER! I remember feeling that if this was what it was like to have a cheating husband than I was happy for him to cheat for the rest of our lives.
When it ended, it ended by my sister confronting me and telling me all the horrible things they did. She was VERY determined to talk me into divorcing my husband. She wanted me to choose family over marriage. I told her I couldn't believe everything she said. I'd have to think about things. The truth was ugly. I didn't like having everything thrown in my face like that. I didn't leave him. We are still together. My sister an I don't talk much and we never shared like we used to before all that happened.
I think it is normal for husbands to be attracted to other women. I think you and your sister's husband have taken it past normal. I'm not one to judge. I'm just asking, NOT to ever make it an UGLY family OUT IN THE OPEN subject.