I was going to give some solid advice until I read one of your reply comments,"sallyjane1: Look, I didn't say that I wasn't attracted to him, I am, deeply and I admit that things have gone on a a lot further than I wrote in the post. i haven't actually let him sleep with me yet, but we have done things that are leading to it am finding it hard to resist that last step. That's why I'm not sure what to do."
Are you serious? You made it seem like he was a nuisance, but you actually like it and let it go on further than it should. You make it seem like you're powerless, but you're not. You're simply conflicted on becoming this asshole's side-ass so he can bang you and your sis in the same day, or betraying your sister.
Ugh..., do whatever you think is right. I have a friend like you, who is deeply in love with a marriage guy and has sex with him all that time when his wife is at work. Sometimes I laugh at her, because she's telling me all this shit about," Oh he loves me! He's going to leave his wife! He's so unhappy with her, and he tells me I make him feel alive," and all this bullshit. This bitch been telling her this for 2 years. 2 damn years, and she still believes him and gives him ass whenever and however. I tell her that he's just using her, but she got pissed off at me, so oh well.
So gurly, if you want to be this scumbag's side-ass, then go for it. Hurt your sister's trust, and play her for a fool while you have sex in her bed; because that's all you'll be. He doesn't love you; hell, he doesn't even love your sister, but I bet he's not going to divorce her, because why? He has a wife to cook/clean/have children with/ etc, and he has the young sister to get sex from when the wife is away or too tired.
My sisters husband keeps hitting on me
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I was going to give some solid advice until I read one of your reply comments,"sallyjane1: Look, I didn't say that I wasn't attracted to him, I am, deeply and I admit that things have gone on a a lot further than I wrote in the post. i haven't actually let him sleep with me yet, but we have done things that are leading to it am finding it hard to resist that last step. That's why I'm not sure what to do."
Are you serious? You made it seem like he was a nuisance, but you actually like it and let it go on further than it should. You make it seem like you're powerless, but you're not. You're simply conflicted on becoming this asshole's side-ass so he can bang you and your sis in the same day, or betraying your sister.
Ugh..., do whatever you think is right. I have a friend like you, who is deeply in love with a marriage guy and has sex with him all that time when his wife is at work. Sometimes I laugh at her, because she's telling me all this shit about," Oh he loves me! He's going to leave his wife! He's so unhappy with her, and he tells me I make him feel alive," and all this bullshit. This bitch been telling her this for 2 years. 2 damn years, and she still believes him and gives him ass whenever and however. I tell her that he's just using her, but she got pissed off at me, so oh well.
So gurly, if you want to be this scumbag's side-ass, then go for it. Hurt your sister's trust, and play her for a fool while you have sex in her bed; because that's all you'll be. He doesn't love you; hell, he doesn't even love your sister, but I bet he's not going to divorce her, because why? He has a wife to cook/clean/have children with/ etc, and he has the young sister to get sex from when the wife is away or too tired.
Please do the right thing and just tell him no.