My prison relationship

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When I was 14 I met a guy and fell madly in love. We dated and spent all our free time together. We worked together and went on family vacations together. When I was 16 I got pregnant. At 17 I had a great boyfriend and a son. When we were almost 19 my boyfriend was drunk and got pulled over. His friend had agun in the car and shot at the officer. My boyfriend fled the scene and turned himself in the next day after a manhunt. In the end he got over 20 years in prison for attempted intentional homicide. I love him so much, but I dated and had another child even got married. After 7 years of this I still only wanted to be with him. I got divorced and he loves my daughter as his own but he is where he is. There is no way of getting out early because of this law that was passed. I don't want to date or anything like that but is it normal for wanting to have sex with someone to meet my sexual needs in the meantime? He thinks it's cheating but to not have someone to lean on and not to have sex for another like 15 years is hard. Tell me what you think.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    Get a vibrator or learn to masturbate. Imagine how he would feel if he knew that you cheated on him? You could always tell him about your needs, but again, how would he feel? Also, what law was passed if you don't mind my asking?

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  • blondbond69
    11 years ago

    Find someone new

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  • randypete
    12 years ago

    Find someone new

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  • alawishes
    13 years ago

    To be honest it is CHEATING..
    u can fix urself up with out having sex with anyone else, there are plenty of things u can do then cheat on him..
    I waited for my man for 3 years I know it is nothing like u are waiting but, we had lots of fun writting naughty letters to each other etc..
    I fixed myself up an never slept with anyone else..
    I agree with ur man that it is cheating even though he is in jail..
    Think serious about waiting for this guy, I am so glad i waited for my man, we are so happy together now and have our lovely little family.. things can turn out great like it has for me or bad, sometimes u have to risk it with the person u love...

    Good luck huni, hope the years fly by for you!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    So he is in prison because his friend shot a cop? Wow that sucks shit :( Don't waste away your life though, you would regret it later.

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  • Enizzle
    13 years ago

    Why worry about cheating? He probably is, with or without his consent...

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  • deepthought33
    13 years ago

    Does he get conjugal visits?

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  • Paul
    13 years ago

    Why did he get 20 years?! He wasn't the one who shot at the cop - it was his friend, right? So that friend should have gotten 20 years, not your boyfriend.

    Also, could you please let me know if there is internet access in American prisons. I really need to know. Thank you.

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  • feehor
    13 years ago

    All these people are stupid and have obviously not been in love. However, waiting 15 years is retarded too. I would say to date/have sexual relations in the meantime. It's normal and does not make you a nympho. Just live your life and enjoy it and see what happens when he's out.

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  • amberlynscott
    14 years ago

    You always want what u can't have. But don't do nething you'll regret like wasting years of your life only to be dissapointed when he gets out. Their lives are onhold in there and of coarse you want to wait for him but your gonna grow and he's gonna be the same person he was when he went in. Only god knows if yous will want to be together then. I would still be there for him emotionally but don't make any commitments u can't keep. And if u choose to continue w ur life try not to tell him TOO much bc we know how overly sensitive they r in there.

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  • Ihave2try
    14 years ago

    Don't let your life pass you by being alone. Find someone new.

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  • sully611
    14 years ago

    Find someone new

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  • randomjelly
    14 years ago

    Trash.

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  • Kris
    14 years ago

    CorpPost check the definition of a nymphomaniac.

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  • Najwa
    14 years ago

    Ur seem to b emotionally glued to him even though u tried getting along with other men...u love dispite of d distance! Dats great! Bt u have physical dat must b met,so meet dat urge of urs, he duznt need to know... hes pretty lucky u still luv him...If roles were reversed wat wud he do?

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  • prayerwarrior75
    14 years ago

    Find someone new he ain't worth it

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  • LikeABoss
    14 years ago

    Perhaps you should get a vibrator or other sex toys to keep you preoccupied and satisfied until he gets out, since having sex with other people would technically be cheating. But you can still have people to lean on, such as friends, family, etc. Good luck!

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  • CiroPost
    14 years ago

    That makes you a nymphomaniac. Seek help.

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