Okay well, some people just don't have much sex drive, and there can be lots of reasons why...
* depression
* stress or fatigue
* childhood sexual abuse, assault, trauma, or neglect
* body image issues
* lack of interest/attraction in partner
* sexual performance anxiety
* poor diet, lack of physical activity
If you don't think that could be an issue then maybe you should see a doctor as they do make medicine to increase peoples libido.
and beyond all of that, you need to have a serious talk with him, you need to make sure that he still loves you and determine what is holding you two apart. You need to tell him that you have needs! and how you really feel about him and the situation.
When you do talk to him about it, don't let him interrupt you or walk away! Make notes and bring them with you! so you don't forget anything in case you get nervous. Now is not the time to be shy you have a child and sex is a major part of marriage.
If you don't work things out it will most likely lead to divorce later.
My partner won't sleep with me. What shall I do?
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Okay well, some people just don't have much sex drive, and there can be lots of reasons why...
* depression
* stress or fatigue
* childhood sexual abuse, assault, trauma, or neglect
* body image issues
* lack of interest/attraction in partner
* sexual performance anxiety
* poor diet, lack of physical activity
If you don't think that could be an issue then maybe you should see a doctor as they do make medicine to increase peoples libido.
and beyond all of that, you need to have a serious talk with him, you need to make sure that he still loves you and determine what is holding you two apart. You need to tell him that you have needs! and how you really feel about him and the situation.
When you do talk to him about it, don't let him interrupt you or walk away! Make notes and bring them with you! so you don't forget anything in case you get nervous. Now is not the time to be shy you have a child and sex is a major part of marriage.
If you don't work things out it will most likely lead to divorce later.