It's never been a position I've been keen on, for exactly the reasons you cite.
But some guys like it for those same reasons. They don't have to really connect with the person they're having sex with; it's just a warm pussy they're thrusting into, and what's going on with the woman it belongs to is irrelevant to them.
And it has to be said that some women like it for the same reasons; sometimes, a woman just doesn't want to have to look at the guy she's ended up with. For some women, rear-entry provides a lot of stimulation to the G-spot. There are also women who are extremely self-conscious about how they look during sex, and if the guy can't see her, that's one less thing for her to worry about. If she can't see the guy, she can fantasise that he's whoever she likes. And if a guy is doing her from behind, she's really not in control of what's happening, and some women get off on the whole "being taken" thing.
Like I said, I'm not really into doggie, but if I was with a woman who really enjoyed it, it would be part of our position repertoire. If I was with a woman who really disliked it, I'd suggest other things we could do.
My partner hates doggie style
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It's never been a position I've been keen on, for exactly the reasons you cite.
But some guys like it for those same reasons. They don't have to really connect with the person they're having sex with; it's just a warm pussy they're thrusting into, and what's going on with the woman it belongs to is irrelevant to them.
And it has to be said that some women like it for the same reasons; sometimes, a woman just doesn't want to have to look at the guy she's ended up with. For some women, rear-entry provides a lot of stimulation to the G-spot. There are also women who are extremely self-conscious about how they look during sex, and if the guy can't see her, that's one less thing for her to worry about. If she can't see the guy, she can fantasise that he's whoever she likes. And if a guy is doing her from behind, she's really not in control of what's happening, and some women get off on the whole "being taken" thing.
Like I said, I'm not really into doggie, but if I was with a woman who really enjoyed it, it would be part of our position repertoire. If I was with a woman who really disliked it, I'd suggest other things we could do.