My mother thinks i hate her

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Is it normal that my mum thinks I hate her? I am a teenager and I get I am withdrawn a bit, I don't really like being touched so I get annoyed when either her or my dad is touch me. But the thing is she always gets so overreactive and she takes me on insane guilt trips. I think she is depressed and it really sucks because she says and does things which make me feel like I am responsible for her depression. I am a young girl who has been told repeatedly that I am tearing my family apart and because of that I am starting to feel all the hatred they claim I already feel is this normal?

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  • neopithair
    6 years ago | pl

    It sounds like your mom either has depression or perhaps Borderline Personality Disorder. Don't believe what she says, she's just displacing blame from herself onto you for her sadness.

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  • bubsy
    6 years ago | pl

    Read "How to Win Friends and Influence People". Don't be one of the unfortunate children who never made friends with their parents. It's a huge part of entering adulthood.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago | pl

    How are you "tearing the family apart"?

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