Unfortunately, we have the same mother. People come in all varieties - some kind and some really ugly and cruel. Just because someone gives birth to a child, does not mean that they are going to be a fit parent, especially when they weren't a decent person to begin with. My mother is still a pain in the arse nightmare to deal with. I have children of my own now, and she's no better grandparent than she was a mother. I really don't want her around my kids at all, but she has threatened some kind of "grandparent rights" crap on me to bring in social services when I tell her that her uninvited visits are not welcomed. She is just the type to do such a thing, so I tolerate a one-day visit from her for her to critique my parenting skills, complain about my children's behavior, gripe about my housekeeping, etc. She has destroyed both of my brothers' marriages, and I had to keep her away from mine in order that she did not do the same to my marriage. What a piece of work she is, and it took two years of therapy to finally understand that the mother I should have had never existed in her for me. Sometimes, you just need to walk away, lead your own life in a better manner than how your mother led hers, and keep the greatest distance between yourself and her as best as you can.
My mother is a narcissistic, demon possessed jodona
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Unfortunately, we have the same mother. People come in all varieties - some kind and some really ugly and cruel. Just because someone gives birth to a child, does not mean that they are going to be a fit parent, especially when they weren't a decent person to begin with. My mother is still a pain in the arse nightmare to deal with. I have children of my own now, and she's no better grandparent than she was a mother. I really don't want her around my kids at all, but she has threatened some kind of "grandparent rights" crap on me to bring in social services when I tell her that her uninvited visits are not welcomed. She is just the type to do such a thing, so I tolerate a one-day visit from her for her to critique my parenting skills, complain about my children's behavior, gripe about my housekeeping, etc. She has destroyed both of my brothers' marriages, and I had to keep her away from mine in order that she did not do the same to my marriage. What a piece of work she is, and it took two years of therapy to finally understand that the mother I should have had never existed in her for me. Sometimes, you just need to walk away, lead your own life in a better manner than how your mother led hers, and keep the greatest distance between yourself and her as best as you can.