I keep thinking that and I feel bad that I don't spend time with her but if I mattered to her at all she'd try spending time with me and she wouldn't have kicked me out
Believe me, i know exactly... I don't know why things happen the way they do sometimes,but i've learned that everything(even the really crappy things) all happen for a reason,even if we don't see it. I knew a girl who's mom used to treat her bad and when it came out why she said it was because she reminded her of her father who did her really bad and she had been taking it out on her(without realizing why!),and they then worked things out. I too had a strained relationship with my mom all thru growing up(ok, my fault too i admit,wild teenager!),and there were times we quit even communicating,but eventually i saw that she had been thru alot herself as a teenager and it was coming out in how she reacted to certain things and it helped me to understand her instead of resenting her. My mom died of breast cancer almost 4yrs ago,and i really miss her. I wish i could get back all of the time we lost going thru all of that,(which now seems so small and meaningless in comparison),so please do try,even though you know she's so wrong at times,try to take the high road and try to maybe understand why she reacts in the ways she does,in the end you'll be glad you did...we can never get back lost time. Feel free to let me know how things are coming along ok? Good luck honey!
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I keep thinking that and I feel bad that I don't spend time with her but if I mattered to her at all she'd try spending time with me and she wouldn't have kicked me out
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Believe me, i know exactly... I don't know why things happen the way they do sometimes,but i've learned that everything(even the really crappy things) all happen for a reason,even if we don't see it. I knew a girl who's mom used to treat her bad and when it came out why she said it was because she reminded her of her father who did her really bad and she had been taking it out on her(without realizing why!),and they then worked things out. I too had a strained relationship with my mom all thru growing up(ok, my fault too i admit,wild teenager!),and there were times we quit even communicating,but eventually i saw that she had been thru alot herself as a teenager and it was coming out in how she reacted to certain things and it helped me to understand her instead of resenting her. My mom died of breast cancer almost 4yrs ago,and i really miss her. I wish i could get back all of the time we lost going thru all of that,(which now seems so small and meaningless in comparison),so please do try,even though you know she's so wrong at times,try to take the high road and try to maybe understand why she reacts in the ways she does,in the end you'll be glad you did...we can never get back lost time. Feel free to let me know how things are coming along ok? Good luck honey!