My mom's boyfriend is coming on to me

Im 18, and it's been a few weeks since my mom's been dating this guy. He's like 45-48. He works in the same building where I live. Me & him get along well, I feel like he would understand anything I tell him. A few weeks back I was wearing a tank top, && I felt him looking at my boobs. Then when we were going to the beach, we were talking about cute bathing suits , and he said ' I can't wait to see how you look ' im like what the hell ?!. After I finished tanning I put my toes in the water , and he came beside me and said ' im dying to bring you in the water , im gonna grab you ' I didn't want to go in the water because the waves at Jones Beach were crazy , but I did anyway. And then he said ' I knew you would look nice and wet '

I told my bestfriend , but it's up to a point where I think if I tell him more of what's going on he'll kill him,!

So a few days ago, him and my mom were sitting on the couch, and I was infront of them giving them a glass of water , so as I poard, I saw him looking at my crotch -_- I felt really uncomfortable.
I don't want to ruien my moms happiness . But I don't want to be around him either.
Then I had an uncomfortable dream of him fingering and licking me , now I can't get it out of my head.

He had took my mom and my brother and me to my favorite resturant ' Olive Garden ' and he said that he only took me their cause it was MY fav. && he plays my fav. music in his car for me. Also Everytime were having a conversation , he try's to give me an idea of where he wants to take it Or he looks at me like he wants to eat me ! Ugh.

I need some advice !
Please help , What should I do ?

Is It Normal?
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  • Punch him

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  • First, "HE" is the one who would be ruining your mother's happiness, even if it is you that tells her.

    Unfortunately, it is possible that she won't believe you.

    I may be totally wrong here, but I don't think so. I would sit down with BOTH OF THEM, and tell the whole story. That way, it's all out on the table, and he won't have time to figure out how to react. His initial reaction may be the only way for your mom to get the drift.

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  • Tell your mother. If she does not believe it film it. Next time he hits on you hit him with something.

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  • MOVE OR DONT SUBMIT TO HIM

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  • Ok either set him straight yourself like telling him to stop saying those things to u or Um I think u should tell your mom. I know it would hurt her but he is being a creep and harassing u. If u tell him to stop and he doesn't then tell your mom. She doesn't need to be with a guy who is coming onto her daughter. Just let him know it makes u uncomfortable and that he should stop

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  • Uhh creepy. Tell him, that, your freaked out a little, and he should respect that. Should..

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  • That is SO wrong!

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