Damn, I'm sorry you're going through this problem! My stupid ex's sister and brother-in-law did that bullshit with their one daughter who is lesbian. I never got to talk too much to his sister about it, but I think it was very invalidating and has fucked her up a lot. They were basically telling her that all that mattered about her was
her femininity and sexual persuasion by focusing so much on such a small part of who she is. She's kinda butch, and doesn't seem to care about anything, but her lovelife. However, I think her parents caused her to turn out that way. It's sad.
I sincerely hope with all my heart and soul that you are doing well! No one should be so narrowly defined as be defined only by his or her, sexual preference, conformation to gender roles and relationship status. Don't let them break you, and remember that you are more than what they see or think you are!
My mom keeps forcing heteronormative bs on me
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Damn, I'm sorry you're going through this problem! My stupid ex's sister and brother-in-law did that bullshit with their one daughter who is lesbian. I never got to talk too much to his sister about it, but I think it was very invalidating and has fucked her up a lot. They were basically telling her that all that mattered about her was
her femininity and sexual persuasion by focusing so much on such a small part of who she is. She's kinda butch, and doesn't seem to care about anything, but her lovelife. However, I think her parents caused her to turn out that way. It's sad.
I sincerely hope with all my heart and soul that you are doing well! No one should be so narrowly defined as be defined only by his or her, sexual preference, conformation to gender roles and relationship status. Don't let them break you, and remember that you are more than what they see or think you are!