My minor sister forced me to have sex! iin?

My 15 years old sister had sex with me forcibly. I'm 18 years old. We were alone at home. I'm not really weak but, she has been learning marshal arts from like when she was 8 years old. I couldn't hit her because I didn't want to hurt her because I love her. We were both a bit drunk at the time(one beer each). I tried to resist and overpower her but, I couldn't. I wouldn't lie, It felt really good.

I feel really guilty about it. Is this wrong? Am I a real bad person? Am I a rapist? Would I be arrested and convicted? What should I do?

I'm so scared! Please help me!

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  • BHolt

    Sorry for the long post, this is a delicate matter, please take the time to read it all!

    Ok, lets break this down calmly: she's 15, and she had one beer. If she doesn't drink much (which she shouldn't at all at 15, but whatever), or that was her first, then it lowered her inhibitions. Meaning the desire/curiosity was probably already there, the alcohol just let that side of her out into the open..

    As for you getting aroused, DO NOT FEEL GUILTY! Our bodies have an "auto-pilot" that reacts to physical & visual stimuli, meaning that feeling her body against yours triggered something AUTOMATIC that you could not control (even if you wanted). As for you enjoying it (it "feeling good"), again DO NOT FEEL GUILTY! The "pleasure" nerves down there sent pulses to the brain, triggering a feeling of enjoyment, again OUTSIDE your control.

    Moving forward: if you don't want this to happen again, 2 options
    1) talk to her while both completely sober, tell her plainly it can't happen EVER again.
    2) tell your parents she forced herself on you. They won't call the cops on you, but they may force her to get counselling or even psychological care (depending on what caused this, she may actually need help). This could destroy your relationship with her, she may resent you for this, so be careful with considering this option

    If you are ok with this happening again, sit her down and discuss boundaries/limits. ie, she can't just jump you like that, she has to ask permission; you will have to wear condoms in future; if she can, she should get on The Pill; it has to be complete secret; if you get "found out" she has to support you by saying she initiated it and it was consensual, this may help soften any punishment you may get (including legal), as after all she is a minor.

    Most important, when talking to her, be calm. Don't get angry at her. Do not make her feel guilty. If she was raped it would explain this as child victims of rape can act out like this (not saying she was raped, but it's possible). If she was NOT raped, but simply exploring her sexuality/sexual desires, then condemning her will have lasting psychological damage. Reassure her its ok to have these desires, but she has to act on them more appropriately.

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  • drxedf

    Dude a lot of guys would kill to be in your position so either embrace and like it or tell your parents and no you won't be charged as long as you can prove you were not the aggressor. And from experience I can tell you its really hard to become aroused if your not into it just somthing to keep in mind

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  • prasatko

    You are not a rapist - maybe she is but it is OK. And you are not a bad person because of this experience (she is not a bad person because of it either).

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    • Thanks, bro.

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  • Darkoil

    Wait who was doing the forcing? I'm confused. Either you are a peadophilic incestious rapist or on the other you are simply rape victim.

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    • quentari

      He was a rape victim, but she was a minor.

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      • Darkoil

        Lol :-)

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    • EnverhX

      He said she forced him

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      • Darkoil

        Yeah thanks for clearing that up....

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  • Ok guys I realize how lucky I'm. My sister is the sweetest person I know. We absolutely love each other. We have decided to continue our beautiful relationship. Thank you all for your supportive and understanding advice.

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  • Don'tReallyCareAboutThatMuch

    It's very far from normal and completely up to you if you wanna be happy with it or tell someone. Think carefully through your decision though. Remember that you didn't cause this, technically, you got raped bro, and that sure as hell isn't normal. Do what you feel is right, what would make you feel better.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    How do you think this makes you a rapist if she raped you. No this is completely wrong and you should tell your parents.

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