Because you live inside your head. You need to break down your ego or you'll live a miserable and lonely life. Conversations aren't that difficult, so long as you don't overthink them.
Ask about them and their work, and take a genuine interest. Have something to say about what you do and what your interests are. But mostly, just encourage them to talk and don't be negative.
Conversations are very difficult if one has social anxiety, which someone has never experienced social and is not introverted will not be able to understand ones situation.
Conversation is a skill that can be trained the same as any. The way to reduce anxiety is to get better at it. Introverts can be very social-they just need time to cool down afterwards. Conversations are thrilling and introverts just burn out sooner.
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Because you live inside your head. You need to break down your ego or you'll live a miserable and lonely life. Conversations aren't that difficult, so long as you don't overthink them.
Ask about them and their work, and take a genuine interest. Have something to say about what you do and what your interests are. But mostly, just encourage them to talk and don't be negative.
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Conversations are very difficult if one has social anxiety, which someone has never experienced social and is not introverted will not be able to understand ones situation.
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Conversation is a skill that can be trained the same as any. The way to reduce anxiety is to get better at it. Introverts can be very social-they just need time to cool down afterwards. Conversations are thrilling and introverts just burn out sooner.
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ok cool man, I don't see what that has to do with my comment but cool
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It has to do with social anxiety and introversion not being excuses, but obstacles to overcome.