I understand where he's coming from, but it's from a very immature place, he's just a kid! Im guessing your ex told him half truths, or cast you in a darker light? I would say to be 100 percent honest with him. And reiterate that you love him because its clear that you do, and everythjng you did you did for him, but also to remind him its not his fault. He may have feelings, however big or small that he caused your actions and could be taking it out on you as well as his other feelings of general loathjng. I come from a mixed family and my dad was a drug addict and felon for years. My mom and his wife were so completely honest with me and I appreciate it so much because it's helped shape me and be more accepting. Compared to my dad who never told me anything, and sugar coated what he did. I cant imagin being raised by two parents who did that, because nothings worse than having someone lie or cover up when you know the truth or at least a version of it. Good luck!
My kid doesn't love me anymore
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I understand where he's coming from, but it's from a very immature place, he's just a kid! Im guessing your ex told him half truths, or cast you in a darker light? I would say to be 100 percent honest with him. And reiterate that you love him because its clear that you do, and everythjng you did you did for him, but also to remind him its not his fault. He may have feelings, however big or small that he caused your actions and could be taking it out on you as well as his other feelings of general loathjng. I come from a mixed family and my dad was a drug addict and felon for years. My mom and his wife were so completely honest with me and I appreciate it so much because it's helped shape me and be more accepting. Compared to my dad who never told me anything, and sugar coated what he did. I cant imagin being raised by two parents who did that, because nothings worse than having someone lie or cover up when you know the truth or at least a version of it. Good luck!