My INFJ personality destroying my life?

Non intuitive types aren't going to suggest meditation because simply they are not intuitive. Most people don't embrace that part of themselves; I am intuitive and I say you ought to get some amethyst crystal for meditation. It's cheap to buy. Also, if you go into a metaphysical shop, a lot of times the hippie/smoke shops have it too and handle the stones and you can figure out if any really call out to you. Watch this for more information about crystals: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xoUOn4Vbrz0